Coaching practices for Storming Norming

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • There’s real friction on my team
  • My team feels off and I keep reacting to each flare-up as its own thing, but I can’t actually say what phase we’re in
  • We had a reorg — lost a key person, changed direction — and suddenly the team that used to hum is fighting and second-guessing again, and I’m treating it like they broke instead of seeing the ground shifted under them.
  • My team has finally figured out how to work together, but it all lives in everyone’s heads
  • Our brainstorms always get hijacked by the same two loud, senior voices while the quieter people

Practices that may help

  1. Storming: name the conflict without taking sides
    Surface the tension that’s already there rather than managing it away.
    Tuckman’s Stages of Team Development
  2. Diagnose which stage your team is in
    Name the stage you’re in before you pick a leadership response.
    Tuckman’s Stages of Team Development
  3. Recognize and recover from stage regression
    A team that was Performing can drop back to Storming — and the recovery move is different from the original ascent.
    Tuckman’s Stages of Team Development
  4. Tuckman’s Stages of Team Development
    Bruce Tuckman’s model describes four stages every team moves through — Forming, Storming, Norming, and Performing — before optionally Adjourning. The stages are a useful diagnostic map for leaders: friction in a new team is usually normal Storming, not a personnel problem.
  5. Norming: codify agreements in writing
    What the team has figured out informally needs to become explicit so it survives personnel changes.
    Tuckman’s Stages of Team Development
  6. Use round-robin turns to equalize contribution
    Give everyone a timed, equal turn — it prevents a few voices from dominating and pulls quieter members into the space.
    Osborn’s Brainstorming Rules, Made Practical
  7. Forming: provide clarity before connection
    In the first stage, a new team needs structure and purpose more than it needs team-building.
    Tuckman’s Stages of Team Development
  8. Appoint an explicit devil’s advocate role
    Give one person the formal job of arguing against the plan — making dissent structural, not personal.
    Red Teaming: Stress-Testing Plans Before They Fail
  9. Develop challenger safety — dissent and challenge are welcomed, not punished
    Create an environment where questioning decisions, challenging leaders, and dissenting are genuinely safe.
    The Four Stages of Psychological Safety
  10. Respond immediately and visibly to safety violations
    When safety is violated — a person is mocked, shut down, or punished for dissent — address it in the moment.
    The Four Stages of Psychological Safety

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