Coaching practices for Story Bias Decisions

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • A choice I made blew up and I’m tearing into myself
  • When I replay this in my own head I always land on the same tidy story, and some part of me suspects I’m protecting myself
  • One story has completely sold me on something and I’m about to act on it
  • When someone lets me down I instantly decide it’s just who they are
  • I notice I’d feel devastated if a choice I made went wrong, but strangely okay if the exact same bad thing happened because I just sat on my hands

Practices that may help

  1. Evaluate decisions by process, not outcome
    Judge a decision by the quality of the reasoning at the time, not by what happened.
    Hindsight Bias: Why Everything Seems Obvious in Retrospect
  2. Include a trusted other in high-stakes AARs
    Self-conducted AARs have blind spots; a peer or coach who was not inside the event sees the causal story differently.
    After-Action Review: The US Army’s Tool for Continuous Learning
  3. Ask the base rate before evaluating the specific case
    Before judging any individual instance, first establish how often this kind of thing happens in general.
    Base-Rate Neglect: Why We Ignore the Odds
  4. The Narrative Fallacy: Why We Can’t Stop Making Stories
    The narrative fallacy, named by Nassim Taleb in The Black Swan, is the tendency to construct coherent, causal stories from sequences of events — and then to mistake the story for the underlying reality. Narratives feel explanatory because they are causal and emotionally coherent, but they systematically underweight randomness, omit disconfirming details, and create false predictability. The bias is real and well-grounded theoretically; its practical importance is high wherever decisions depend on forecasting or learning from the past.
  5. Catch the attribution error
    Notice when you’re explaining someone’s behavior by their character instead of their situation.
    Generous Interpretation
  6. Apply the outcome equivalence test
    Ask: if the same harm resulted from action vs. inaction, which would you prefer? Divergence reveals the bias.
    Omission Bias — Why Doing Nothing Feels Safer Than Acting
  7. Lead with statistics, then interpret with narrative — not the reverse
    Use the base rate as your anchor, then adjust for your specific situation — not the other way around.
    The Availability Heuristic: Why Memorable Feels Probable
  8. Identify what the narrative leaves out
    After hearing or constructing a causal story, deliberately list the facts it doesn’t explain.
    The Narrative Fallacy: Why We Can’t Stop Making Stories
  9. Survivorship Bias: Learning from What You Can’t See
    Survivorship bias is the error of drawing conclusions only from the cases that made it through a filter — winners, survivors, visible successes — while the failures that never appear are silently excluded. The clearest historical example is Abraham Wald’s WWII aircraft study: the military wanted to armor the bullet holes they saw on returning planes; Wald showed they should armor where they saw no damage, because planes hit there didn’t return.
  10. Notice when you are in soldier mode
    Catch the moment your brain shifts from truth-seeking to self-defending.
    The Scout Mindset

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