Coaching practices for Linda Problem Bias
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I can spot everyone else’s blind spots instantly
- Lately all I seem to register is what my partner does wrong
- I walk away from conversations certain I made myself clear, and then days later it turns out my partner heard something completely different
- I notice I’d feel devastated if a choice I made went wrong, but strangely okay if the exact same bad thing happened because I just sat on my hands
- My mind keeps stacking up every reason I’m right that this went badly, and I can’t seem to see anything that points the other way
Practices that may help
- Question your own objectivity explicitly
Ask yourself what forces might be shaping your perception before assuming you see things clearly.
Naive Realism: Why Everyone Thinks They See Things as They Are - Track what your partner does right, not just wrong
Deliberately notice and record positive partner behaviors to counteract negativity bias.
The 5-to-1 Positivity Ratio in Relationships - Default to assuming you’ve been misunderstood
After any important message, assume it landed differently than you intended — then check.
Closeness-Communication Bias - Apply the outcome equivalence test
Ask: if the same harm resulted from action vs. inaction, which would you prefer? Divergence reveals the bias.
Omission Bias — Why Doing Nothing Feels Safer Than Acting - Examine the evidence for and against
Systematically list what supports your interpretation and what doesn’t — like a fair-minded lawyer, not a prosecutor.
Check the Facts, Made Practical - Notice which data you selected — and which you ignored
Your conclusions are built on a sample of the available data — ask what the sample excluded.
The Ladder of Inference - Evaluate decisions by process, not outcome
Judge a decision by the quality of the reasoning at the time, not by what happened.
Hindsight Bias: Why Everything Seems Obvious in Retrospect - Recognize when contrast is being used on you
Awareness of the contrast principle is the antidote — evaluate options against an independent standard, not the presented sequence.
The Contrast Principle, Made Practical - Survivorship Bias: Learning from What You Can’t See
Survivorship bias is the error of drawing conclusions only from the cases that made it through a filter — winners, survivors, visible successes — while the failures that never appear are silently excluded. The clearest historical example is Abraham Wald’s WWII aircraft study: the military wanted to armor the bullet holes they saw on returning planes; Wald showed they should armor where they saw no damage, because planes hit there didn’t return. - Interrogate whether similarity is doing the work
When assessing probability or quality, ask whether you’re really judging similarity to a prototype.
Attribute Substitution: When Your Brain Answers a Different Question
Related concerns
- Am I Being Biased
Deliberately generate the case for the conclusion you are not reaching.
Consider the opposite before finalizing a judgment
- Confirmation Bias Seeing What You Expect To See As A Caregiver
Confirmation bias is the tendency to seek, notice, and remember information that confirms existing beliefs, while ignoring or discounting contradictory evidence. It is among the most robustly documented cognitive biases. Debiasing is difficult and partial — knowing about it helps less than most people assume — but structured practices (actively seeking disconfirming evidence, pre-mortems, and adversarial collaboration) reliably reduce its impact.
- How To Notice Bias
Confirmation bias is the tendency to seek, notice, and remember information that confirms existing beliefs, while ignoring or discounting contradictory evidence. It is among the most robustly documented cognitive biases. Debiasing is difficult and partial — knowing about it helps less than most people assume — but structured practices (actively seeking disconfirming evidence, pre-mortems, and adversarial collaboration) reliably reduce its impact.
- Outcome Bias
Judge a decision by the quality of the reasoning at the time, not by what happened.
Evaluate decisions by process, not outcome
- Resulting Bias
Deliberately generate the case for the conclusion you are not reaching.
- Confirmation Bias Seeing What You Expect To See After A Loss
Confirmation bias is the tendency to seek, notice, and remember information that confirms existing beliefs, while ignoring or discounting contradictory evidence. It is among the most robustly documented cognitive biases. Debiasing is difficult and partial — knowing about it helps less than most people assume — but structured practices (actively seeking disconfirming evidence, pre-mortems, and adversarial collaboration) reliably reduce its impact.
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