Coaching practices for Subject Object Move
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- When I move I’m going through the motions on autopilot, mind a thousand miles away
- I keep vaguely telling myself to "move more" during the day and then a sedentary day slides by and I haven’t budged once
- There are things I treat as plain facts about myself and the world, and I’m starting to suspect some of them are just views I’ve never questioned
- When it counts, I’m in my head about my own body
- When I’m trying to explain something complicated I instinctively want to move my hands, but in the meeting I pin them down to look composed
Practices that may help
- Kegan’s Subject-Object Theory, Made Practical
Robert Kegan’s subject-object theory holds that adult development is a series of shifts in what you are "subject to" (run by, unable to see) versus what you can hold as "object" (observe and reflect on). Each developmental order expands what you can see about yourself and others, and the practices that support these transitions — reflective inquiry, perspective-taking, immunity mapping — have clinical grounding, though the stage theory itself is based primarily on observational and interview research. - Intention and visualization in qigong
Mentally directing awareness to moving energy through a region while moving amplifies the proprioceptive signal and focuses attention effectively.
Qigong: Evidence-Based Mind-Body Practice - Anchor movement to existing routines
Stack a movement snack onto something you already do every day.
Micro-Workouts (Exercise Snacks), Honestly Explained - Conduct a subject-object audit
Identify what is currently running you without your awareness versus what you can observe and question.
Kegan’s Subject-Object Theory, Made Practical - Direct attention to the effect of the movement, not the movement itself
Attend to where the ball goes or where force lands — not to how your arm or leg moves.
External Focus of Attention, Made Practical - Gesture while learning or explaining
Move your hands to trace or enact what you are thinking — it aids comprehension and recall.
Embodied Cognition: How Your Body Shapes Your Thinking - Write every Action Step starting with a verb
An Action Step that begins with a verb is completable; one that doesn’t is usually a wish or a category, not a task.
The Action Method, Made Practical - Rewrite internal-focus coaching cues as external-focus equivalents
Audit your coaching language and convert body-focused instructions to effect-focused ones.
External Focus of Attention, Made Practical - Use more distal external focus for greater performance benefits
Focus further from the body (on the target, not the implement) for the largest attention benefit.
External Focus of Attention, Made Practical - Question what moves and operations are permitted
Challenge the implicit rules about which actions are allowed — often the "forbidden" move is the solution.
Constraint Relaxation: Escaping the Walls You Built Yourself
Related concerns
- External Focus Motor Learning
External focus of attention — directing attention to the intended effect of a movement (where the ball goes, where force is applied) rather than to body mechanics — consistently outperforms internal focus for both skill learning and execution. Gabriele Wulf’s OPTIMAL theory proposes two mechanisms: external focus activates automatic motor control processes, and it enhances competence need satisfaction. Effect sizes in controlled experiments are moderate to large.
- Incidental Movement
Attach a movement snack to an existing daily trigger — after coffee, before a meeting, when hanging up a call.
Stack exercise snacks onto existing daily anchors
- Intention In Movement
Mentally directing awareness to moving energy through a region while moving amplifies the proprioceptive signal and focuses attention effectively.
Intention and visualization in qigong
- Internal Focus Motor Learning
Offer self-directed options in practice — which drill, how many reps, which cue — to enhance intrinsic motivation and learning.
Give performers choice within practice to support autonomy
- Attentional Focus Motor Learning
Attend to where the ball goes or where force lands — not to how your arm or leg moves.
Direct attention to the effect of the movement, not the movement itself
- Coaching Language External Focus
Audit your coaching language and convert body-focused instructions to effect-focused ones.
Rewrite internal-focus coaching cues as external-focus equivalents
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