Coaching practices for Sufi Psychology of Self
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- I keep doing the remembrance but it feels mechanical, like I’m moving my lips while my heart stays clouded over with ego and distraction
- I fuse so completely with whatever I’m thinking or feeling
- So much of me is a performance
- People talk about a calm, centered place inside, and I honestly don’t know if I’ve ever been there
- Even doing things I care about, I’m stuck watching myself the whole time
Practices that may help
- Understanding the goal: polishing the mirror of the heart
Dhikr’s aim is to remove the veils of forgetfulness so the heart can reflect divine reality.
Sufi Dhikr: The Practice of Remembrance - Practice loosening identification with the ego-self
Train the capacity to observe your thoughts, feelings, and roles without completely being them.
The Perennial Philosophy, Made Practical - Sufi Dhikr: The Practice of Remembrance
Dhikr (Arabic: "remembrance") is the central devotional practice of Sufi Islam — the rhythmic repetition of divine names, phrases from the Quran (particularly "La ilaha ill Allah" — there is no god but God), or short prayers, alone or in group ceremony. The practice aims at polishing the heart (qalb) so it becomes a mirror for divine reality. Dhikr has roots in Quranic injunction (Quran 33:41) and in the hadith literature; its specific forms vary widely across Sufi orders (tariqas). Some components — rhythmic repetition, breath coordination, present-moment focus — overlap with studied mechanisms, but dhikr as a whole has not been evaluated in controlled trials. - IFS Self Energy, Made Practical
Self energy — a core concept in Richard Schwartz’s Internal Family Systems — refers to the innate calm, curious, compassionate core that exists in every person beneath their reactive parts. IFS holds that healing happens through parts experiencing the presence of Self, not through willpower or technique. The "8 Cs" (calm, curiosity, clarity, compassion, confidence, courage, creativity, connectedness) describe its qualities. Evidence for IFS overall is growing but limited in controlled trials; Self energy overlaps with well-studied mindfulness and self-compassion constructs. - Attending to the true self beneath the false self
Recognize the constructed social persona (false self) and rest in the deeper self beneath it.
Contemplative Prayer: The Inner Journey - Recognize the qualities of Self when they are present
Learn to identify when you are in Self — calm, curious, compassionate — so you can notice when you are not.
IFS Self Energy, Made Practical - Practice reducing ego-centeredness without self-erasure
Develop the capacity to act fully while temporarily setting aside self-preoccupation.
Maslow’s Self-Transcendence, Made Practical - Cultivate Self through directed inner compassion
Practice sending compassion inward — toward the parts that are suffering — to build the Self-energy those parts need.
IFS Self Energy, Made Practical - Accessing Self
Find the calm, curious, compassionate core from which healing leadership happens.
Internal Family Systems (IFS), Made Practical - Shift identity from self-concept to awareness itself
Experiment with "I am the aware space" rather than "I am my thoughts and feelings."
Non-Dual Awareness, Made Practical
Related concerns
- Dissolving The Self
Train the capacity to observe your thoughts, feelings, and roles without completely being them.
Practice loosening identification with the ego-self
- How To Access Self Ifs
Self energy — a core concept in Richard Schwartz’s Internal Family Systems — refers to the innate calm, curious, compassionate core that exists in every person beneath their reactive parts. IFS holds that healing happens through parts experiencing the presence of Self, not through willpower or technique. The "8 Cs" (calm, curiosity, clarity, compassion, confidence, courage, creativity, connectedness) describe its qualities. Evidence for IFS overall is growing but limited in controlled trials; Self energy overlaps with well-studied mindfulness and self-compassion constructs.
- How To Respond From Self Ifs
When a part fires, pause long enough to consult Self before responding — even a two-second pause counts.
Practice Self-leadership in reactive moments
- Ifs Self
Self energy — a core concept in Richard Schwartz’s Internal Family Systems — refers to the innate calm, curious, compassionate core that exists in every person beneath their reactive parts. IFS holds that healing happens through parts experiencing the presence of Self, not through willpower or technique. The "8 Cs" (calm, curiosity, clarity, compassion, confidence, courage, creativity, connectedness) describe its qualities. Evidence for IFS overall is growing but limited in controlled trials; Self energy overlaps with well-studied mindfulness and self-compassion constructs.
- Ifs Self Energy As A Caregiver
Self energy — a core concept in Richard Schwartz’s Internal Family Systems — refers to the innate calm, curious, compassionate core that exists in every person beneath their reactive parts. IFS holds that healing happens through parts experiencing the presence of Self, not through willpower or technique. The "8 Cs" (calm, curiosity, clarity, compassion, confidence, courage, creativity, connectedness) describe its qualities. Evidence for IFS overall is growing but limited in controlled trials; Self energy overlaps with well-studied mindfulness and self-compassion constructs.
- Ifs Self Energy Cultivation
Self energy — a core concept in Richard Schwartz’s Internal Family Systems — refers to the innate calm, curious, compassionate core that exists in every person beneath their reactive parts. IFS holds that healing happens through parts experiencing the presence of Self, not through willpower or technique. The "8 Cs" (calm, curiosity, clarity, compassion, confidence, courage, creativity, connectedness) describe its qualities. Evidence for IFS overall is growing but limited in controlled trials; Self energy overlaps with well-studied mindfulness and self-compassion constructs.
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