Coaching practices for Tacit Knowledge the Skill You Can T Fully Explain as a Parent

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  • I keep asking the person who’s great at this to explain how they do it, and their answers never quite capture it
  • I’ve read every book and watched every tutorial on this and I still can’t actually do it
  • There’s a subtle difference I can feel instantly
  • I just nailed something hard and in that exact moment I can feel what I did and why, but by the next day it’s slipped away and all I’ve got left is a tidy story that misses the real thing
  • People keep asking me how I just know the right call in my work, and I freeze

Practices that may help

  1. Tacit Knowledge: The Skill You Can’t Fully Explain
    Tacit knowledge, coined by Michael Polanyi, is the practical know-how embedded in action and performance that cannot be fully articulated — "we know more than we can tell." Expert cyclists cannot fully explain how they balance; experienced coaches cannot completely verbalize what tells them a client is ready to shift. Developing tacit knowledge requires practice-based immersion rather than instruction, and transferring it requires close apprenticeship rather than documentation.
  2. Apprentice yourself to observe tacit knowledge in action
    Spend extended time watching an expert perform — close observation transfers more than their verbal explanations.
    Tacit Knowledge: The Skill You Can’t Fully Explain
  3. Acquire tacit knowledge through extended immersive practice
    To develop know-how you cannot be taught, you must perform it repeatedly in authentic contexts.
    Tacit Knowledge: The Skill You Can’t Fully Explain
  4. Develop a shared vocabulary for tacit distinctions
    Name the subtle distinctions you can detect but not yet explain — giving a word to a perception accelerates its transfer.
    Tacit Knowledge: The Skill You Can’t Fully Explain
  5. Externalize tacit knowledge through structured reflection after performance
    Immediately after a performance, narrate what you did and why — to capture the living rule before it fades.
    Tacit Knowledge: The Skill You Can’t Fully Explain
  6. Elicit your own tacit knowledge by working through cases
    Use concrete case analysis to surface the implicit rules you already follow but cannot state.
    Tacit Knowledge: The Skill You Can’t Fully Explain
  7. Participate in a community of practice to absorb shared tacit knowledge
    Embed yourself in a group of practitioners — shared tacit knowledge circulates through collaboration and culture, not documentation.
    Tacit Knowledge: The Skill You Can’t Fully Explain
  8. Build mindsight by reflecting inner experience
    Describe your own inner experience in everyday conversation to build the child’s "mind-seeing" capacity.
    The Whole-Brain Child (Siegel & Bryson)
  9. Articulation prompts
    Ask learners to explain their reasoning before, during, and after a task to surface and strengthen tacit knowledge.
    Cognitive Apprenticeship: Learning by Making Thinking Visible
  10. Take time for training — teach the skill, not just the rule
    Children misbehave partly because they don’t know how to do the right thing — teach the skill when everyone is calm.
    Positive Discipline (Jane Nelsen)

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