Coaching practices for Tell the Story Feelings
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- There’s a story I want to talk through but every time I start telling it I lead with the most intense part and my body floods before I get three sentences in
- I’ve told my own story so many times it’s become this smooth, inevitable arc with no doubt in it
- My storytelling stays at the level of "a significant challenge during a difficult period," and it just slides past people without leaving a mark
- Someone does one small thing and within seconds I’ve built a whole story about what it means
- The day they died still plays in my head in jagged pieces
Practices that may help
- Titrate the story — tell only the edges of a difficult narrative
When a story feels too big to tell fully, tell only its outer layer — what you noticed before it escalated — rather than the most intense part.
Titration in Somatic Practice, Made Practical - Share the messy version, not the edited highlight reel
The over-polished version of your story creates distance; the real version creates connection.
The Pratfall Effect, Made Practical - Use concrete sensory detail, not abstract description
The details that trigger imagery are the ones that produce transportation — vague language doesn’t.
Storytelling for Persuasion, Made Practical - Master your stories
Separate the facts from the story you’re telling about them before you react.
Crucial Conversations, Made Practical - Retell the story of the death and its aftermath
Construct a coherent, detailed narrative of the loss — including your experience before, during, and after.
Meaning Reconstruction in Grief, Made Practical - Do the discovery with a partner
Have someone listen for the themes you can’t hear in your own stories.
Find Your Why, Made Practical - Structure the story as a transformation, not a summary
The protagonist (you, your customer, your team) should be different at the end than at the beginning.
Storytelling for Persuasion, Made Practical - Construct a coherent narrative of the loss
Tell the full story of the loss — who the person was, what happened, and what life is now.
Worden’s Tasks of Mourning, Made Practical - Close with a specific call to action, not a summary
A story landing on "so we should all…" is more powerful than a bullet-point recap.
Storytelling for Persuasion, Made Practical - Storytelling for Persuasion, Made Practical
When listeners become absorbed in a narrative, their counter-argument generation drops and attitudes shift toward the story’s perspective — a process called narrative transportation. Experimental research confirms that well-crafted stories can be more persuasive than equivalent statistical evidence, particularly for value-laden or identity-relevant topics.
Related concerns
- Authentic Storytelling Technique
The over-polished version of your story creates distance; the real version creates connection.
Share the messy version, not the edited highlight reel
- Storytelling For Persuasion After A Loss
Construct a coherent, detailed narrative of the loss — including your experience before, during, and after.
Retell the story of the death and its aftermath
- Storytelling For Persuasion When Burned Out
When listeners become absorbed in a narrative, their counter-argument generation drops and attitudes shift toward the story’s perspective — a process called narrative transportation. Experimental research confirms that well-crafted stories can be more persuasive than equivalent statistical evidence, particularly for value-laden or identity-relevant topics.
- Storytelling For Persuasion When Overwhelmed
When listeners become absorbed in a narrative, their counter-argument generation drops and attitudes shift toward the story’s perspective — a process called narrative transportation. Experimental research confirms that well-crafted stories can be more persuasive than equivalent statistical evidence, particularly for value-laden or identity-relevant topics.
- Loss Story Telling
The protagonist (you, your customer, your team) should be different at the end than at the beginning.
Structure the story as a transformation, not a summary
- Sticky Stories Mind
When listeners become absorbed in a narrative, their counter-argument generation drops and attitudes shift toward the story’s perspective — a process called narrative transportation. Experimental research confirms that well-crafted stories can be more persuasive than equivalent statistical evidence, particularly for value-laden or identity-relevant topics.
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