Coaching practices for Terror Management Theory in a New Job

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• I notice I defend some of my deepest convictions way harder than the actual evidence warrants, and the moment anyone questions them I get this jolt of anger
• I get this strong knee-jerk hostility toward people who live by different values than mine, way out of proportion to anything they’ve actually done
• One worrying thing happens and my mind sprints straight to the absolute worst-case ending
• When the dread about death and meaning creeps up on me, I tend to bury it in work and chasing status
• I’m convinced that if I send this message or speak up in the meeting, people will think I’m incompetent

Practices that may help

1. Terror Management Theory, Made Practical
   Terror management theory (TMT), developed by Greenberg, Pyszczynski, and Solomon from Ernest Becker’s work, holds that awareness of mortality is a pervasive driver of human motivation: people buffer death anxiety by bolstering self-esteem and embracing cultural worldviews that promise symbolic or literal immortality. Hundreds of experiments support the core "mortality salience" effect, though its real-world magnitude and the best personal response remain debated.
2. Examine your worldview for death-anxiety imports
   Identify beliefs and group loyalties that may be driven by terror management rather than genuine conviction.
   Terror Management Theory, Made Practical
3. Notice and counteract mortality-driven outgroup hostility
   Recognize when discomfort with difference is amplified by death anxiety rather than genuine disagreement.
   Terror Management Theory, Made Practical
4. Check for catastrophizing
   Test whether you are amplifying the likely outcome beyond what the evidence supports.
   Check the Facts, Made Practical
5. Invest in close relationships as a mortality buffer
   Deep relational bonds provide genuine, non-defensive protection against existential anxiety.
   Terror Management Theory, Made Practical
6. Test worry predictions with small behavioural experiments
   Treat a feared outcome as a hypothesis and design a small real-world test.
   The Worry Tree
7. Set realistic expectations before each exposure
   Before you enter the situation, write down your feared prediction — then check it against reality afterward.
   The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical
8. Reframe threat as challenge
   Interpret a stressful situation as a challenge to meet, not a threat to survive.
   Cognitive Reappraisal vs. Suppression, Made Practical
9. Debrief performances to recover from threat appraisals
   After a high-stakes event, restructure what happened to extract learning and reduce the residual threat signal.
   Challenge vs. Threat Appraisal, Made Practical
10. Run a primary appraisal check
    Before assuming a situation is stressful, ask: does this actually threaten, harm, or challenge something I care about?
    Lazarus Appraisal Theory, Made Practical

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