Coaching practices for Terror Management Theory with Friends

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• I notice I defend some of my deepest convictions way harder than the actual evidence warrants, and the moment anyone questions them I get this jolt of anger
• I get this strong knee-jerk hostility toward people who live by different values than mine, way out of proportion to anything they’ve actually done
• When the dread about death and meaning creeps up on me, I tend to bury it in work and chasing status
• I’m convinced that if I send this message or speak up in the meeting, people will think I’m incompetent
• We’ve all fallen in love with this plan and the room’s gone warm and agreeable, and now it feels almost rude to be the one raising what could go wrong

Practices that may help

1. Terror Management Theory, Made Practical
   Terror management theory (TMT), developed by Greenberg, Pyszczynski, and Solomon from Ernest Becker’s work, holds that awareness of mortality is a pervasive driver of human motivation: people buffer death anxiety by bolstering self-esteem and embracing cultural worldviews that promise symbolic or literal immortality. Hundreds of experiments support the core "mortality salience" effect, though its real-world magnitude and the best personal response remain debated.
2. Examine your worldview for death-anxiety imports
   Identify beliefs and group loyalties that may be driven by terror management rather than genuine conviction.
   Terror Management Theory, Made Practical
3. Notice and counteract mortality-driven outgroup hostility
   Recognize when discomfort with difference is amplified by death anxiety rather than genuine disagreement.
   Terror Management Theory, Made Practical
4. Invest in close relationships as a mortality buffer
   Deep relational bonds provide genuine, non-defensive protection against existential anxiety.
   Terror Management Theory, Made Practical
5. Test worry predictions with small behavioural experiments
   Treat a feared outcome as a hypothesis and design a small real-world test.
   The Worry Tree
6. Black hat: identify risks and why something could fail
   Apply the most rigorous critical scrutiny to the idea — the black hat is the voice of caution and evidence-based pessimism.
   Six Thinking Hats, Made Practical
7. Situational attentional refocusing: shift from self to situation
   In anxiety-provoking situations, actively redirect attention outward — to the task, the other person, the environment.
   Metacognitive Therapy, Made Practical
8. Set realistic expectations before each exposure
   Before you enter the situation, write down your feared prediction — then check it against reality afterward.
   The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical
9. Check for catastrophizing
   Test whether you are amplifying the likely outcome beyond what the evidence supports.
   Check the Facts, Made Practical
10. Cognitive Defusion: Creating Distance from Worry Thoughts
    Use defusion techniques to observe worries rather than being fused with them.
    Worry Time: Containing Anxiety With Scheduled Worry

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