Coaching practices for The Anxiety Toolkit Before Bed

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  • The minute my head hits the pillow the worries flood in and I lie there for hours, then the lost sleep makes the next day’s anxiety even worse
  • The second my head hits the pillow my mind starts up
  • The moment the lights go out my brain starts running tomorrow’s to-do list on a loop
  • I always wait until I’m already in full panic to try to calm down, and by then it’s too far gone for anything to work
  • I’ve got all these little things I do to get through anxious moments

Practices that may help

  1. The Anxiety Toolkit, Made Practical
    A practical anxiety toolkit pulls together a handful of evidence-informed skills — grounding, breathing, interoceptive awareness, behavioral experiments, and balanced self-talk — so you have the right tool for the moment instead of one move for every situation. Several of these rest on solid clinical and experimental support. They are self-help skills for everyday stress and anxiety; for severe or persistent anxiety, use them alongside professional care.
  2. The Pre-Sleep Worry Buffer
    Use a 10-minute afternoon or early evening worry review to protect sleep from nighttime rumination.
    Worry Time: Containing Anxiety With Scheduled Worry
  3. Schedule a worry time earlier in the day
    Contain bedtime worry by giving anxious thoughts a specific earlier window, then postponing them at night.
    CBT for Insomnia (CBT-I), Made Practical
  4. Offload cognitive load with a bedtime worry journal
    Write tomorrow’s to-do list and any intrusive worries before bed — externalized thoughts stop competing for attention at sleep onset.
    The Wind-Down Routine: Engineering Your Path to Sleep
  5. Use grounding before anxiety peaks, not after
    Start the technique at the first sign of anxiety — not once the wave is overwhelming.
    The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique
  6. Map your safety-behavior inventory
    List every action you take to prevent feared outcomes in anxiety-provoking situations.
    Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
  7. The 5-4-3-2-1 grounding technique
    Name five things you see, four you hear, three you feel, two you smell, one you taste.
    The Anxiety Toolkit, Made Practical
  8. Rapid relaxation: achieve a relaxation response in 20–30 seconds
    Deploy a practiced, condensed relaxation sequence the moment anxiety begins rising.
    Applied Relaxation, Made Practical
  9. Break the anxiety-about-sleep loop
    Interrupt the cycle where worrying about not sleeping becomes the main reason you can not sleep.
    Stimulus Control for Sleep
  10. Balanced, compassionate self-talk
    Talk to yourself as you would to a friend — accurate and kind, not harsh or falsely cheery.
    The Anxiety Toolkit, Made Practical

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