Coaching practices for The Five Dysfunctions of a Team with Friends

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• When someone on my team drops the ball, everyone just waits for me to be the one to say something
• Everyone on my team is quietly playing for their own scoreboard
• My team only ever talks about how we’re working together after something has already blown up
• On my team nobody will admit they’re stuck or wrong or don’t know something
• Our meetings are all polite nods and "sounds good," and then the real opinions come out afterward in side conversations and quiet eye-rolls

Practices that may help

1. The Five Dysfunctions of a Team, Made Practical
   Patrick Lencioni’s model describes five compounding failures that undermine teams: absence of trust, fear of conflict, lack of commitment, avoidance of accountability, and inattention to results — each built on the one below. It is a practitioner framework presented as a business fable, not an empirically tested model, but its five dimensions align well with decades of team effectiveness research, making it a useful diagnostic even without controlled-trial support.
2. Create a culture of peer-to-peer accountability
   Teams that only hold each other accountable through the manager haven’t built real accountability at all.
   The Five Dysfunctions of a Team, Made Practical
3. Align around collective results, not individual status
   Teams fail when members prioritize their own visibility or department’s success over the shared goal.
   The Five Dysfunctions of a Team, Made Practical
4. Use regular team health checks to surface dysfunction early
   Teams that check in on how they’re working together catch dysfunction before it compounds.
   The Five Dysfunctions of a Team, Made Practical
5. Build vulnerability-based trust
   Teams that can’t admit weakness, mistakes, or ignorance to each other cannot genuinely collaborate.
   The Five Dysfunctions of a Team, Made Practical
6. Engage in productive ideological conflict
   Teams that avoid conflict don’t avoid disagreement — they bury it, where it grows into resentment and bad decisions.
   The Five Dysfunctions of a Team, Made Practical
7. Get genuine commitment, not false consensus
   Teams that avoid conflict often confuse silence for agreement — false consensus is catastrophic for execution.
   The Five Dysfunctions of a Team, Made Practical
8. Map your team’s genius coverage
   Check whether all six activities are covered by someone who finds them energizing.
   The 6 Types of Working Genius (Patrick Lencioni)
9. Name frustrations without shame
   Frustrations are not weaknesses — they’re a mismatch signal that the team can act on.
   The 6 Types of Working Genius (Patrick Lencioni)
10. Diagnose which safety stage your team is currently in
    Before intervening, accurately assess whether the deficit is inclusion, learner, contributor, or challenger safety.
    The Four Stages of Psychological Safety

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