Coaching practices for The Ideal Performance State as a Caregiver
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- I’m never fully on and never fully off
- I know roughly what my best state feels like, but getting there is pure luck
- I treat rest as something I only earn after everything else is done, so it’s the first thing I cut
- Some days I’m unstoppable and other days I’m flat for no reason I can name, and I have no idea what was actually different
- I keep pouring myself into caring for everyone around me while running on empty, and instead of feeling connected it just leaves me hollowed out
Practices that may help
- The Ideal Performance State, Made Practical
The Ideal Performance State (IPS) is Jim Loehr and Tony Schwartz’s term for the specific combination of physical, mental, and emotional activation at which a performer reliably produces peak output. The IPS is individual-specific — what energizes one performer paralyzes another — and is accessed through deliberate energy management rather than through hoping to "get in the zone." - Oscillate deliberately between full engagement and full recovery
Treat disengagement between performances as a skill to develop, not an indulgence to manage.
The Ideal Performance State, Made Practical - Build state-access rituals that reliably produce your IPS
Design a repeatable ritual sequence that consistently moves you into your Ideal Performance State.
The Ideal Performance State, Made Practical - Treat recovery as a performance investment, not a reward for finishing
Schedule recovery as deliberately as training — stress without recovery produces breakdown, not growth.
The Ideal Performance State, Made Practical - Map your personal Ideal Performance State
Identify the exact mental, emotional, and physical conditions under which you perform at your best.
The Ideal Performance State, Made Practical - Tend to yourself before tending to others
Sustainable tend-and-befriend requires that the caregiver’s own basic needs are met — otherwise helping depletes rather than regulates.
Tend-and-Befriend, Made Practical - Accept your role (not its outcomes) as your commitment
Commit to the role — parent, manager, friend, citizen — as a practice, with its obligations, not as a guarantee of outcomes.
The Stoic Reserve Clause - Determine whether your zone requires activation or relaxation
Once your zone is mapped, identify whether you need to increase or decrease arousal before performance.
The Zone of Optimal Functioning: Hanin’s IZOF Model - Regulate emotional tone as part of performance preparation
Identify the specific emotional tone (challenged, confident, competitive, calm) your IPS requires — and practice producing it.
The Ideal Performance State, Made Practical - Build a zone-entry routine specific to your IZOF
Design your pre-performance preparation to reliably produce the specific emotional state your IZOF requires.
The Zone of Optimal Functioning: Hanin’s IZOF Model
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- The Ideal Performance State In A New Job
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- The Ideal Performance State When Starting Out
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