Coaching practices for The Ideal Performance State for My Teenager
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- Some days I’m unstoppable and other days I’m flat for no reason I can name, and I have no idea what was actually different
- I’m never fully on and never fully off
- I know roughly what my best state feels like, but getting there is pure luck
- Everyone tells me to get calm and positive before I perform, but honestly some of my best moments came when I was actually a little angry or on edge
- I know the state I need to be in to perform my best, but I have no reliable way to actually get myself there
Practices that may help
- The Ideal Performance State, Made Practical
The Ideal Performance State (IPS) is Jim Loehr and Tony Schwartz’s term for the specific combination of physical, mental, and emotional activation at which a performer reliably produces peak output. The IPS is individual-specific — what energizes one performer paralyzes another — and is accessed through deliberate energy management rather than through hoping to "get in the zone." - Map your personal Ideal Performance State
Identify the exact mental, emotional, and physical conditions under which you perform at your best.
The Ideal Performance State, Made Practical - Oscillate deliberately between full engagement and full recovery
Treat disengagement between performances as a skill to develop, not an indulgence to manage.
The Ideal Performance State, Made Practical - Build state-access rituals that reliably produce your IPS
Design a repeatable ritual sequence that consistently moves you into your Ideal Performance State.
The Ideal Performance State, Made Practical - Expand the IZOF profile to include positive and negative emotions
Map which emotions — not just anxiety — are functional for your performance, and which are dysfunctional.
The Zone of Optimal Functioning: Hanin’s IZOF Model - Build a zone-entry routine specific to your IZOF
Design your pre-performance preparation to reliably produce the specific emotional state your IZOF requires.
The Zone of Optimal Functioning: Hanin’s IZOF Model - Regulate emotional tone as part of performance preparation
Identify the specific emotional tone (challenged, confident, competitive, calm) your IPS requires — and practice producing it.
The Ideal Performance State, Made Practical - Accept your role (not its outcomes) as your commitment
Commit to the role — parent, manager, friend, citizen — as a practice, with its obligations, not as a guarantee of outcomes.
The Stoic Reserve Clause - Determine whether your zone requires activation or relaxation
Once your zone is mapped, identify whether you need to increase or decrease arousal before performance.
The Zone of Optimal Functioning: Hanin’s IZOF Model - Sportscast what you see rather than directing
Narrate the play without evaluation, question, or instruction.
Special Time (Lawrence Cohen — Playful Parenting)
Related concerns
- The Ideal Performance State As A Caregiver
The Ideal Performance State (IPS) is Jim Loehr and Tony Schwartz’s term for the specific combination of physical, mental, and emotional activation at which a performer reliably produces peak output. The IPS is individual-specific — what energizes one performer paralyzes another — and is accessed through deliberate energy management rather than through hoping to "get in the zone."
- Ideal Performance State Loehr Schwartz
The Ideal Performance State (IPS) is Jim Loehr and Tony Schwartz’s term for the specific combination of physical, mental, and emotional activation at which a performer reliably produces peak output. The IPS is individual-specific — what energizes one performer paralyzes another — and is accessed through deliberate energy management rather than through hoping to "get in the zone."
- Peak Performance State
The Ideal Performance State (IPS) is Jim Loehr and Tony Schwartz’s term for the specific combination of physical, mental, and emotional activation at which a performer reliably produces peak output. The IPS is individual-specific — what energizes one performer paralyzes another — and is accessed through deliberate energy management rather than through hoping to "get in the zone."
- The Ideal Performance State With Friends
The Ideal Performance State (IPS) is Jim Loehr and Tony Schwartz’s term for the specific combination of physical, mental, and emotional activation at which a performer reliably produces peak output. The IPS is individual-specific — what energizes one performer paralyzes another — and is accessed through deliberate energy management rather than through hoping to "get in the zone."
- Hanin Performance Zone
Yuri Hanin’s Individual Zones of Optimal Functioning (IZOF) model holds that each athlete has a unique pre-competition anxiety range within which performance is best — and that this range, and the anxiety level that produces it, varies significantly between individuals. The practical implication is that there is no universally optimal arousal level: some athletes perform best when highly anxious, others when calm. The work is to identify your personal zone and develop practices to enter it reliably.
- Identify Optimal Performance Zone
Once your zone is mapped, identify whether you need to increase or decrease arousal before performance.
Determine whether your zone requires activation or relaxation
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