Coaching practices for The Inner Citadel During Conflict
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- In the middle of a tense moment, when everything’s pressing in on me at once, I feel like I have nowhere to stand
- I treat whatever happens to me as a command about how I have to feel
- My peace of mind is hostage to things I can’t control
- The instant something lands
- I read all the Stoic ideas and nod along, but the moment real life pushes on me I crumble exactly the same as before
Practices that may help
- The Inner Citadel
The "inner citadel" is Pierre Hadot’s name for a core idea in Marcus Aurelius: your own rational mind — your power to judge and assent — is the one place that cannot be taken from you by external events. Marcus calls it the "hegemonikon" (ruling faculty). Building it means training your faculty of assent so it responds to impressions deliberately rather than being yanked by them. The practices are largely mechanistic and clinical in their evidence base, via the well-known Stoicism-to-CBT lineage. - Retreat inward under pressure
When the world presses in, withdraw into your own reasoning faculty — the one place no one else can enter.
The Inner Citadel - See external events from the citadel view
From the inner citadel, events are data for judgment — not commands that must dictate your state.
The Inner Citadel - The discipline of desire
Confine your desires and aversions to what is genuinely up to you — your judgments and actions, not outcomes.
The Inner Citadel - Train your faculty of assent
Practice pausing between an impression (a thought, feeling, or perception) and your assent to it.
The Inner Citadel - Daily training of the ruling faculty
Treat every day’s difficulties as training material for strengthening the ruling faculty.
The Inner Citadel - Distinguish protectors from exiles
Sort your parts into those who manage and firefight (protectors) vs those who carry old wounds (exiles).
IFS Parts Mapping, Made Practical - Retreat to the inner citadel
When the world presses in, withdraw into your own mind — the one place no one can occupy.
Meditations, as Marcus Practiced It - Call on your inner fierce ally
Develop an internalized image of a powerful, compassionate protector you can invoke in moments of threat.
Fierce Self-Compassion, Made Practical - Use fierce self-compassion to stay in hard conversations
Stay present in conflict by meeting your own distress with compassion, so you don't flee or attack.
Fierce Self-Compassion, Made Practical
Related concerns
- The Inner Citadel At Work
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- The Inner Citadel When Overwhelmed
The "inner citadel" is Pierre Hadot’s name for a core idea in Marcus Aurelius: your own rational mind — your power to judge and assent — is the one place that cannot be taken from you by external events. Marcus calls it the "hegemonikon" (ruling faculty). Building it means training your faculty of assent so it responds to impressions deliberately rather than being yanked by them. The practices are largely mechanistic and clinical in their evidence base, via the well-known Stoicism-to-CBT lineage.
- The Inner Citadel For My Teenager
The "inner citadel" is Pierre Hadot’s name for a core idea in Marcus Aurelius: your own rational mind — your power to judge and assent — is the one place that cannot be taken from you by external events. Marcus calls it the "hegemonikon" (ruling faculty). Building it means training your faculty of assent so it responds to impressions deliberately rather than being yanked by them. The practices are largely mechanistic and clinical in their evidence base, via the well-known Stoicism-to-CBT lineage.
- The Inner Citadel Under Stress
The "inner citadel" is Pierre Hadot’s name for a core idea in Marcus Aurelius: your own rational mind — your power to judge and assent — is the one place that cannot be taken from you by external events. Marcus calls it the "hegemonikon" (ruling faculty). Building it means training your faculty of assent so it responds to impressions deliberately rather than being yanked by them. The practices are largely mechanistic and clinical in their evidence base, via the well-known Stoicism-to-CBT lineage.
- The Inner Citadel With My Team
The "inner citadel" is Pierre Hadot’s name for a core idea in Marcus Aurelius: your own rational mind — your power to judge and assent — is the one place that cannot be taken from you by external events. Marcus calls it the "hegemonikon" (ruling faculty). Building it means training your faculty of assent so it responds to impressions deliberately rather than being yanked by them. The practices are largely mechanistic and clinical in their evidence base, via the well-known Stoicism-to-CBT lineage.
- The Inner Citadel After A Loss
The "inner citadel" is Pierre Hadot’s name for a core idea in Marcus Aurelius: your own rational mind — your power to judge and assent — is the one place that cannot be taken from you by external events. Marcus calls it the "hegemonikon" (ruling faculty). Building it means training your faculty of assent so it responds to impressions deliberately rather than being yanked by them. The practices are largely mechanistic and clinical in their evidence base, via the well-known Stoicism-to-CBT lineage.
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