Coaching practices for The Inner Game Quieting Self 1 in a New Job
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- The instant my mind has nothing to hold onto it floods with instructions and second-guessing
- While I’m actually performing there’s this running commentary telling me I’m blowing it, and I take every word of it as fact in the moment
- When I practice the same thing at the same level it gets boring, and the boredom is exactly when my mind wanders off and starts criticizing
- One part of me wants out, another part won’t let me, and they just war with each other on a loop
- Every time something doesn’t land I turn it into "I’m failing at this" instead of just noticing what actually happened
Practices that may help
- The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1
Timothy Gallwey’s Inner Game framework distinguishes Self 1 — the critical, instructing voice that interferes with performance — from Self 2, the body’s natural learning intelligence. Performance improves not by trying harder but by reducing Self 1’s interference so Self 2 can perform. The model is widely applied in coaching, athletics, and business; controlled-trial evidence is limited but the underlying mechanisms align with research on choking, explicit monitoring, and attentional redirection. - Give Self 2 a concrete focus anchor
Occupy Self 1 with a specific sensory observation task so it stops issuing unhelpful instructions.
The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1 - Identify your Self 1 interference in real time
Notice when your inner critic is instructing, judging, or catastrophizing — and name it as Self 1.
The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1 - Find the challenge that produces full engagement
Match the difficulty of what you are practicing to what fully engages your attention without overwhelming it.
The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1 - Working with Multiple Selves (Chair Work in CFT)
Give voice to different internal parts — the critic, the anxious self, the compassionate self — to understand and change the dialogue.
Compassion-Focused Therapy: Calming the Inner Critic - Use the performance-feedback loop without Self 1
Treat every outcome as information, not a verdict — adjust without judging.
The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1 - The inner critic dialogue
Give the inner critic a voice on paper and then respond — the goal is dialogue, not silencing.
Shadow Work - Working With Your Inner Critic
The inner critic is not silenced by arguing with it or fighting it — it is disarmed by recognizing it as a learned protective strategy and responding with the same warmth you would offer a struggling friend. Self-compassion practices show reliable effects on self-criticism and psychological well-being in multiple meta-analyses. - Update the map as parts shift
Revisit and revise the map after significant inner work — the system changes, and the map should too.
IFS Parts Mapping, Made Practical - Practice letting go of outcomes
Release attachment to results during performance so attention can stay with the process.
The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1
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- The Inner Game Quieting Self 1 At Work
Timothy Gallwey’s Inner Game framework distinguishes Self 1 — the critical, instructing voice that interferes with performance — from Self 2, the body’s natural learning intelligence. Performance improves not by trying harder but by reducing Self 1’s interference so Self 2 can perform. The model is widely applied in coaching, athletics, and business; controlled-trial evidence is limited but the underlying mechanisms align with research on choking, explicit monitoring, and attentional redirection.
- The Inner Game Quieting Self 1 During A Big Change
Timothy Gallwey’s Inner Game framework distinguishes Self 1 — the critical, instructing voice that interferes with performance — from Self 2, the body’s natural learning intelligence. Performance improves not by trying harder but by reducing Self 1’s interference so Self 2 can perform. The model is widely applied in coaching, athletics, and business; controlled-trial evidence is limited but the underlying mechanisms align with research on choking, explicit monitoring, and attentional redirection.
- The Inner Game Quieting Self 1 When Burned Out
Timothy Gallwey’s Inner Game framework distinguishes Self 1 — the critical, instructing voice that interferes with performance — from Self 2, the body’s natural learning intelligence. Performance improves not by trying harder but by reducing Self 1’s interference so Self 2 can perform. The model is widely applied in coaching, athletics, and business; controlled-trial evidence is limited but the underlying mechanisms align with research on choking, explicit monitoring, and attentional redirection.
- The Inner Game Quieting Self 1 When Starting Out
Timothy Gallwey’s Inner Game framework distinguishes Self 1 — the critical, instructing voice that interferes with performance — from Self 2, the body’s natural learning intelligence. Performance improves not by trying harder but by reducing Self 1’s interference so Self 2 can perform. The model is widely applied in coaching, athletics, and business; controlled-trial evidence is limited but the underlying mechanisms align with research on choking, explicit monitoring, and attentional redirection.
- The Inner Game Quieting Self 1 With My Team
Timothy Gallwey’s Inner Game framework distinguishes Self 1 — the critical, instructing voice that interferes with performance — from Self 2, the body’s natural learning intelligence. Performance improves not by trying harder but by reducing Self 1’s interference so Self 2 can perform. The model is widely applied in coaching, athletics, and business; controlled-trial evidence is limited but the underlying mechanisms align with research on choking, explicit monitoring, and attentional redirection.
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