Coaching practices for The Inner Game Quieting Self 1 When Starting Out

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  • The instant my mind has nothing to hold onto it floods with instructions and second-guessing
  • When I practice the same thing at the same level it gets boring, and the boredom is exactly when my mind wanders off and starts criticizing
  • While I’m actually performing there’s this running commentary telling me I’m blowing it, and I take every word of it as fact in the moment
  • Every time something doesn’t land I turn it into "I’m failing at this" instead of just noticing what actually happened
  • I can do this thing fluently when no one’s watching, but the moment it matters I start micromanaging every step

Practices that may help

  1. The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1
    Timothy Gallwey’s Inner Game framework distinguishes Self 1 — the critical, instructing voice that interferes with performance — from Self 2, the body’s natural learning intelligence. Performance improves not by trying harder but by reducing Self 1’s interference so Self 2 can perform. The model is widely applied in coaching, athletics, and business; controlled-trial evidence is limited but the underlying mechanisms align with research on choking, explicit monitoring, and attentional redirection.
  2. Give Self 2 a concrete focus anchor
    Occupy Self 1 with a specific sensory observation task so it stops issuing unhelpful instructions.
    The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1
  3. Find the challenge that produces full engagement
    Match the difficulty of what you are practicing to what fully engages your attention without overwhelming it.
    The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1
  4. Identify your Self 1 interference in real time
    Notice when your inner critic is instructing, judging, or catastrophizing — and name it as Self 1.
    The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1
  5. Use the performance-feedback loop without Self 1
    Treat every outcome as information, not a verdict — adjust without judging.
    The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1
  6. Trust Self 2 — give the body an image, not instructions
    Set the target in vivid sensory terms and then let the body execute without conscious direction.
    The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1
  7. Practice letting go of outcomes
    Release attachment to results during performance so attention can stay with the process.
    The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1
  8. Replace judgment with non-judgmental awareness
    Observe what is actually happening with curious interest rather than approval or disapproval.
    The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1
  9. Working with Multiple Selves (Chair Work in CFT)
    Give voice to different internal parts — the critic, the anxious self, the compassionate self — to understand and change the dialogue.
    Compassion-Focused Therapy: Calming the Inner Critic
  10. The inner critic dialogue
    Give the inner critic a voice on paper and then respond — the goal is dialogue, not silencing.
    Shadow Work

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