Coaching practices for The Ladder of Inference During Conflict
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- We keep going in circles arguing about who’s right, both certain
- I’ve already decided what’s going on and I’m about to act on it
- I’ve held this view of someone for so long that it’s become self-confirming
- My conclusion only makes sense because of a bunch of things I’m silently taking for granted about people and how the world works
- I’m one click away from escalating this
Practices that may help
- Walk down the ladder together in disagreements
In conflict, stop arguing about conclusions and descend together to the data level.
The Ladder of Inference - The Ladder of Inference
Chris Argyris's ladder of inference describes the rapid, largely invisible mental journey from raw observable data to a firmly held belief and action — selecting data, interpreting it, making assumptions, drawing conclusions, and acting, often in seconds. The practice is to slow this climb and check each rung, especially in high-stakes situations where conclusions feel certain but may be built on shaky selections and assumptions. - Test conclusions before acting on them
Treat your conclusion as a hypothesis and find one piece of evidence that would confirm or disconfirm it.
The Ladder of Inference - Slow the reflexive loop
Your current beliefs shape which data you select, reinforcing themselves — interrupt this loop deliberately.
The Ladder of Inference - Surface and examine the assumptions you are making
Name the assumptions filling the gap between the data you selected and the interpretation you reached.
The Ladder of Inference - Investigate before escalating
Ask one honest clarifying question before taking action on an assumed motive.
Hanlon's Razor: Never Attribute to Malice What Stupidity Can Explain - Make repair attempts early and accept them graciously
Use small signals to de-escalate conflict before it spirals — and receive them when offered.
The 5-to-1 Positivity Ratio in Relationships - Separate the person from the problem
Treat the conflict as a problem you face together, not a contest you fight each other.
The Third Alternative, Made Practical - Distinguish observable data from interpretation
Separate what a camera would record from what you made of it.
The Ladder of Inference - Transform the relationship, not just the issue
Use each conflict as an opportunity to raise the quality of the relationship itself.
The Third Alternative, Made Practical
Related concerns
- Ladder Of Inference Assumptions
Chris Argyris's ladder of inference describes the rapid, largely invisible mental journey from raw observable data to a firmly held belief and action — selecting data, interpreting it, making assumptions, drawing conclusions, and acting, often in seconds. The practice is to slow this climb and check each rung, especially in high-stakes situations where conclusions feel certain but may be built on shaky selections and assumptions.
- Ladder Of Inference Conflict
In conflict, stop arguing about conclusions and descend together to the data level.
Walk down the ladder together in disagreements
- The Ladder Of Inference As A Caregiver
Chris Argyris's ladder of inference describes the rapid, largely invisible mental journey from raw observable data to a firmly held belief and action — selecting data, interpreting it, making assumptions, drawing conclusions, and acting, often in seconds. The practice is to slow this climb and check each rung, especially in high-stakes situations where conclusions feel certain but may be built on shaky selections and assumptions.
- The Ladder Of Inference At Work
Chris Argyris's ladder of inference describes the rapid, largely invisible mental journey from raw observable data to a firmly held belief and action — selecting data, interpreting it, making assumptions, drawing conclusions, and acting, often in seconds. The practice is to slow this climb and check each rung, especially in high-stakes situations where conclusions feel certain but may be built on shaky selections and assumptions.
- Chris Argyris Ladder
Chris Argyris's ladder of inference describes the rapid, largely invisible mental journey from raw observable data to a firmly held belief and action — selecting data, interpreting it, making assumptions, drawing conclusions, and acting, often in seconds. The practice is to slow this climb and check each rung, especially in high-stakes situations where conclusions feel certain but may be built on shaky selections and assumptions.
- The Ladder Of Inference After A Loss
Chris Argyris's ladder of inference describes the rapid, largely invisible mental journey from raw observable data to a firmly held belief and action — selecting data, interpreting it, making assumptions, drawing conclusions, and acting, often in seconds. The practice is to slow this climb and check each rung, especially in high-stakes situations where conclusions feel certain but may be built on shaky selections and assumptions.
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