Coaching practices for The Raci Matrix Under Stress

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• We sorted out who owned what at kickoff, but the project has shifted and two people have left since then, and now decisions are getting made by folks who aren’t even in those roles anymore
• Every small call drags out for days because I’ve looped in so many people for their input that nobody’s opinion actually moves the needle anymore
• A deadline just blew past and when I asked what happened, everyone pointed at someone else
• Everything still funnels through me because I own the outcome, so I can’t hand off the actual doing without feeling like I’ve let it go entirely
• Someone senior just found out about a change after the fact and was hurt they were the last to know

Practices that may help

1. The RACI Matrix, Made Practical
   A RACI matrix assigns one of four roles — Responsible, Accountable, Consulted, Informed — to every person for every key decision or task in a project. Its main value is preventing the two most common team failures: work falling through the cracks because no one owns it, and decisions stalling because too many people feel they must approve them.
2. Review the RACI when scope or team changes
   A RACI built at kickoff and never updated is out of date the moment the first change happens.
   The RACI Matrix, Made Practical
3. Limit Consulted to people whose input genuinely changes the decision
   Every C is a two-way conversation that costs time; over-consulting is as dangerous as under-consulting.
   The RACI Matrix, Made Practical
4. Assign exactly one Accountable per decision
   Every decision or deliverable must have exactly one A — not zero, not two.
   The RACI Matrix, Made Practical
5. Separate the doer (R) from the owner (A)
   The person who does the work is often not the person who owns the outcome — make this explicit.
   The RACI Matrix, Made Practical
6. Inform stakeholders before they ask, not after they complain
   I’s are one-way — they receive information; the cost of surprising them is always higher than the cost of telling them.
   The RACI Matrix, Made Practical
7. Inventory your coping resources (secondary appraisal)
   After identifying the threat, systematically assess what you actually have to work with — your options are likely more than the stressed mind sees.
   Lazarus Appraisal Theory, Made Practical
8. Pair the RACI with a decision log
   Knowing who decides is only half the system — recording what was decided closes the accountability loop.
   The RACI Matrix, Made Practical
9. Learn to recognize your challenge vs. threat physiological state
   The same stress activation can be challenge (approach, energy forward) or threat (defend, constrict) — the difference is your appraisal of resources.
   The Stress-Is-Enhancing Mindset
10. Protect your Q1 response capacity
    Real crises are handled best by someone who is not already exhausted — Q1 capacity requires Q2 investment.
    The Eisenhower Life Audit

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