Coaching practices for The Regret of the Dying at Work
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- I keep telling myself family comes first, but when I actually look at where my hours went this week it’s almost all work
- I’m stuck on a real decision and lost in the noise of it, and I want to step back and ask how the version of me at the very end of life would see this
- I’m sitting on a real chance to do something that matters to me, and the safe, comfortable, convenient choice is quietly winning by default
- I look at the big shape of my life
- I want to look back from the very end of my life and ask honestly what I actually did with my time
Practices that may help
- The Regret of the Dying
Bronnie Ware, an Australian palliative care nurse, documented the most common regrets of dying patients in her book The Top Five Regrets of the Dying. The themes — especially living others’ expectations, working too hard, suppressing feelings, and neglecting friendships — are consistent with broader research on regret and well-being. The evidence is qualitative and self-reported; treat it as wisdom data, not clinical data. - Audit work hours against your stated priorities
Compare how you actually spend your time this week against what you say matters most.
The Regret of the Dying - Use mortality salience to clarify what actually matters
Regularly reflect on finitude — not to produce dread, but to sharpen the signal-to-noise ratio of your choices.
The Regret of the Dying - Apply the deathbed test to current decisions
When facing a trade-off, ask which option the future you will wish you had chosen.
The Bucket List Method - Audit whether you are living your life or someone else’s
Identify the places where your choices reflect others’ expectations rather than your own values.
The Regret of the Dying - Write a brief final accounting
Write as if you’re reporting on your life: what did you do with your time?
Memento Mori: Using Mortality Awareness to Focus What Matters - Counteract occupational sitting with deliberate after-hours NEAT
Desk workers who add deliberate after-hours walking substantially reduce the mortality risk associated with prolonged occupational sitting.
NEAT Thermogenesis - Practice expressing feelings you habitually suppress
Name one feeling you regularly suppress and find one safe context to express it this week.
The Regret of the Dying - Deliberate mortality reflection
Briefly contemplate your finite lifespan to surface what actually matters to you.
Terror Management Theory, Made Practical - Identify one permission you need to give yourself
Name the specific permission you are withholding from yourself that stands between you and more happiness.
The Regret of the Dying
Related concerns
- Deathbed Regret Wisdom
Bronnie Ware, an Australian palliative care nurse, documented the most common regrets of dying patients in her book The Top Five Regrets of the Dying. The themes — especially living others’ expectations, working too hard, suppressing feelings, and neglecting friendships — are consistent with broader research on regret and well-being. The evidence is qualitative and self-reported; treat it as wisdom data, not clinical data.
- Regrets Of The Dying
Bronnie Ware, an Australian palliative care nurse, documented the most common regrets of dying patients in her book The Top Five Regrets of the Dying. The themes — especially living others’ expectations, working too hard, suppressing feelings, and neglecting friendships — are consistent with broader research on regret and well-being. The evidence is qualitative and self-reported; treat it as wisdom data, not clinical data.
- The Regret Of The Dying As A Caregiver
Bronnie Ware, an Australian palliative care nurse, documented the most common regrets of dying patients in her book The Top Five Regrets of the Dying. The themes — especially living others’ expectations, working too hard, suppressing feelings, and neglecting friendships — are consistent with broader research on regret and well-being. The evidence is qualitative and self-reported; treat it as wisdom data, not clinical data.
- The Regret Of The Dying During Conflict
Bronnie Ware, an Australian palliative care nurse, documented the most common regrets of dying patients in her book The Top Five Regrets of the Dying. The themes — especially living others’ expectations, working too hard, suppressing feelings, and neglecting friendships — are consistent with broader research on regret and well-being. The evidence is qualitative and self-reported; treat it as wisdom data, not clinical data.
- The Regret Of The Dying For My Teenager
Bronnie Ware, an Australian palliative care nurse, documented the most common regrets of dying patients in her book The Top Five Regrets of the Dying. The themes — especially living others’ expectations, working too hard, suppressing feelings, and neglecting friendships — are consistent with broader research on regret and well-being. The evidence is qualitative and self-reported; treat it as wisdom data, not clinical data.
- The Regret Of The Dying In A New Job
Bronnie Ware, an Australian palliative care nurse, documented the most common regrets of dying patients in her book The Top Five Regrets of the Dying. The themes — especially living others’ expectations, working too hard, suppressing feelings, and neglecting friendships — are consistent with broader research on regret and well-being. The evidence is qualitative and self-reported; treat it as wisdom data, not clinical data.
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