Coaching practices for The Relaxation Response Before Bed

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  • By bedtime I’m still buzzing from the day and I get into bed wired
  • Every night before bed looks completely different depending on my mood
  • I climb into bed exhausted but my body hasn’t gotten the message
  • I’m lying in bed tired but still keyed up
  • I get into bed and my body is still humming

Practices that may help

  1. Evening yoga routine for sleep
    A gentle 15-minute yoga sequence 30–60 minutes before bed lowers cortisol and core temperature to accelerate sleep onset.
    Yoga for Stress: What the Research Shows
  2. Anchor the wind-down with a consistent starting cue
    A repeated pre-sleep ritual — a specific tea, a book, a certain playlist — becomes a conditioned cue that induces sleepiness over time.
    The Wind-Down Routine: Engineering Your Path to Sleep
  3. Use relaxation training before bed
    Practice a structured relaxation technique to lower physiological arousal before sleep.
    CBT for Insomnia (CBT-I), Made Practical
  4. The Relaxation Response, Made Practical
    Herbert Benson described the relaxation response as a learnable physiological state — the mirror image of the fight-or-flight stress response — that you can reliably elicit with two ingredients: a repeated focus (a word, sound, phrase, or breath) and a passive attitude toward intruding thoughts. The two-step method is simple, secular, and grounded in real physiological measurement, though it is a self-help skill for everyday stress, not a treatment for clinical disorders.
  5. Use 4-7-8 breathing as a sleep-onset ritual
    Four to eight cycles in bed before sleep reduces physiological arousal and supports the transition into sleep.
    4-7-8 Breathing, Made Practical
  6. Use PMR to wind down for sleep
    Run the sequence lying in bed to lower physical arousal and ease the transition to sleep.
    Progressive Muscle Relaxation, Made Practical
  7. Savasana and the relaxation response
    Lying completely still at the end of a yoga practice triggers the relaxation response — the physiological counterpart to the stress response.
    Yoga for Stress: What the Research Shows
  8. Progressive muscle relaxation to lower physical arousal
    Systematically tense and release muscle groups from feet to head to lower the physiological arousal that blocks sleep onset.
    The Wind-Down Routine: Engineering Your Path to Sleep
  9. Build a no-work buffer in the final 60 minutes
    Closing work tasks at least 60 minutes before bed allows the sympathetic nervous system to downregulate before sleep is attempted.
    The Wind-Down Routine: Engineering Your Path to Sleep
  10. Pre-sleep trataka for insomnia and mind-calming
    A ten-minute trataka session in low light before bed draws scattered thoughts into a single point.
    Trataka: The Yoga Practice of Fixed-Gaze Meditation

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