Coaching practices for Third Order Thinking Kegan
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- I follow a set of unwritten rules in my roles so automatically I’ve never asked if they’re even mine, and I’m so defined by what others expect of me that I can’t tell where their expectations end and I begin.
- My plans keep blowing up because I picture the world holding still after I act, and then the other people involved push back or work around me in ways I never thought to expect
- I keep deferring to what other people think is right and then feel hollow about decisions that were never really mine
- I want an edge here, but I can’t tell if my take is genuinely sharper than what everyone else already thinks or if I’m just being different for the sake of it
- I tend to lock in on a decision the moment the first result looks good and just stop there, and I want to actually keep going
Practices that may help
- Second-Order Thinking: And Then What?
Second-order thinking, a discipline associated with investor Howard Marks, means tracing the consequences of your consequences — asking "and then what?" past the immediate result to the reactions, side effects, and feedback that follow. It is a reasoning heuristic rather than a trial-tested intervention, but it counteracts the well-documented human bias toward judging a choice only by its first, most visible outcome. - Practice third-order perspective-taking
Step outside your relationships and social roles to see them as one perspective rather than as your identity.
Kegan’s Subject-Object Theory, Made Practical - Kegan’s Subject-Object Theory, Made Practical
Robert Kegan’s subject-object theory holds that adult development is a series of shifts in what you are "subject to" (run by, unable to see) versus what you can hold as "object" (observe and reflect on). Each developmental order expands what you can see about yourself and others, and the practices that support these transitions — reflective inquiry, perspective-taking, immunity mapping — have clinical grounding, though the stage theory itself is based primarily on observational and interview research. - Anticipate others’ reactions
Second-order effects often come from how people respond to your first move.
Second-Order Thinking: And Then What? - Develop your own compass for decisions
Build a personal value system that guides decisions independently of social approval.
Kegan’s Subject-Object Theory, Made Practical - Separate the consensus view from the correct one
To outperform, you must be both non-consensus and right — and second-order thinking is how.
Second-Order Thinking: And Then What? - Ask “and then what?” three times
Don’t stop at the first consequence — follow the chain at least two steps further.
Second-Order Thinking: And Then What? - Keep a second-order decision journal
Record the downstream effects you predicted, then check them later.
Second-Order Thinking: And Then What? - Conduct a subject-object audit
Identify what is currently running you without your awareness versus what you can observe and question.
Kegan’s Subject-Object Theory, Made Practical - Always ask what happens next after the obvious effect
For any decision, trace at least two steps of consequences before committing.
Mental Models: Charlie Munger’s Latticework Approach
Related concerns
- Kegan Fourth Order
Step outside your relationships and social roles to see them as one perspective rather than as your identity.
Practice third-order perspective-taking
- Second Order Thinking
Second-order thinking, a discipline associated with investor Howard Marks, means tracing the consequences of your consequences — asking "and then what?" past the immediate result to the reactions, side effects, and feedback that follow. It is a reasoning heuristic rather than a trial-tested intervention, but it counteracts the well-documented human bias toward judging a choice only by its first, most visible outcome.
- Second Order Thinking And Then What At Work
Second-order thinking, a discipline associated with investor Howard Marks, means tracing the consequences of your consequences — asking "and then what?" past the immediate result to the reactions, side effects, and feedback that follow. It is a reasoning heuristic rather than a trial-tested intervention, but it counteracts the well-documented human bias toward judging a choice only by its first, most visible outcome.
- Second Order Thinking And Then What In A New Job
Second-order thinking, a discipline associated with investor Howard Marks, means tracing the consequences of your consequences — asking "and then what?" past the immediate result to the reactions, side effects, and feedback that follow. It is a reasoning heuristic rather than a trial-tested intervention, but it counteracts the well-documented human bias toward judging a choice only by its first, most visible outcome.
- Second Order Thinking And Then What When Burned Out
Second-order thinking, a discipline associated with investor Howard Marks, means tracing the consequences of your consequences — asking "and then what?" past the immediate result to the reactions, side effects, and feedback that follow. It is a reasoning heuristic rather than a trial-tested intervention, but it counteracts the well-documented human bias toward judging a choice only by its first, most visible outcome.
- Second Order Thinking And Then What With Friends
Second-order thinking, a discipline associated with investor Howard Marks, means tracing the consequences of your consequences — asking "and then what?" past the immediate result to the reactions, side effects, and feedback that follow. It is a reasoning heuristic rather than a trial-tested intervention, but it counteracts the well-documented human bias toward judging a choice only by its first, most visible outcome.
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