Coaching practices for Ulysses Contract

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• There’s one thing I cave to every single time it’s within reach
• The deal is stuck because they swear the numbers will hit and I’m sure they won’t, and neither of us will budge on our forecast
• My plans always assume a good day, and then the predictable thing happens
• I want to throw myself completely into this and also not be destroyed if it doesn’t land, and right now those feel impossible to hold at once
• On Sunday I’m completely sure I’ll do it, and by Wednesday the version of me on the couch just shrugs and skips it with zero consequence

Practices that may help

1. Make an irrevocable decision about a recurring temptation
   Remove the choice entirely in the moment of highest temptation by deciding now, permanently.
   Commitment Contracts, Made Practical
2. Precommitment Devices (Ulysses Contracts)
   A precommitment device is a constraint you impose on your future self while you still have the clarity to want the right thing — locking in a choice so the weaker, in-the-moment you cannot undo it. Commitment contracts (including ones with real money or social stakes) have solid experimental support, though they help most for people already motivated to change.
3. Odyssey Plans: Designing Three Alternative Futures
   Odyssey plans are a practice from Bill Burnett and Dave Evans’s "Designing Your Life" framework in which you sketch out three distinct five-year life plans — not ranked by desirability, but genuinely different in direction. The exercise exploits prototyping logic from design thinking: holding alternatives in parallel prevents premature commitment and reveals assumptions you did not know you were making.
4. Bridge disagreements with contingent terms
   When you disagree about the future, bet on it — tie terms to what actually happens.
   Win-Win Thinking: Expanding the Pie
5. Commitment Contracts, Made Practical
   A commitment contract binds your future self to a course of action by attaching real costs — financial, social, or reputational — to failure. The evidence from savings programs and behavioral economics is solid for financial commitments; effects on health and habit change are positive but more variable, and contracts work best when you already want to change.
6. Pre-identify your temptations before writing the contract
   Knowing specifically when and how you’ll be tempted lets you write a contract that covers those scenarios.
   Commitment Contracts, Made Practical
7. Add the reserve clause to every significant action
   Act fully — "I will do X, fate permitting" — holding the intention tightly and the outcome loosely.
   The Stoic Discipline of Action
8. Commitment contracts with real stakes
   Put money or a consequence on the line so failing the goal costs something concrete.
   Precommitment Devices (Ulysses Contracts)
9. Discipline desire and aversion
   Want only what’s up to you, and be averse only to what’s up to you — then you can’t be thwarted.
   The Enchiridion, as a Handbook
10. Use mutual dependence as a motivation to act well
    Remember that others depend on the same fabric you do — and act in ways that strengthen it.
    Sympatheia — the Stoic Practice of Universal Interconnection

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