Coaching practices for Unfairness at Workplace Recognition

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• When something goes well I tend to quietly absorb the credit or just say "great team effort," and I never actually name who did what
• I tossed off a "great work" to someone and watched it land flat, because we both knew I hadn’t really looked at what they did
• I lead a team and I’ve realized the people I lean on most are the ones who remind me of myself or are just easy to be around
• Checking off a private box does nothing for me
• When someone does something genuinely great I tend to file it away to mention at their review, and by the time it comes around it’s gone cold and vague

Practices that may help

1. Give recognition generously and specifically
   Call out others’ contributions publicly, specifically, and without claiming credit for yourself.
   Give and Take: The Giver Advantage
2. Give recognition that names the person’s specific effort, not just the outcome
   Generic praise signals you were not paying attention; specific recognition proves you were.
   Caring Personally: The Foundation of Radical Candor
3. Manage LMX differentiation fairly as a leader
   Acknowledge that you develop different relationships with different people — and ensure the differences are earned, not arbitrary.
   Leader-Member Exchange (LMX), Made Practical
4. Pair token reinforcement with social reinforcement
   Public acknowledgment and social recognition amplify the motivating effect of token systems beyond what tokens alone provide.
   Contingency Management and Token Economies
5. One-minute praisings: specific, immediate, genuine
   Praise that names the exact behavior immediately after it occurs reinforces that behavior far more effectively than delayed or generic recognition.
   The One Minute Manager: Three Practices That Still Work
6. Frame rewards as information, not control
   "Your solution was creative" supports motivation; "here’s your gold star for complying" undermines it.
   Intrinsic vs. Extrinsic Motivation: What the Research Actually Shows
7. Practice owning your contribution in group settings
   In team debrief or credit-distribution conversations, name your specific contribution before someone else summarizes it away.
   Impostor Phenomenon, Made Practical
8. Use SBI for positive feedback, not just correction
   Name the situation, behavior, and impact when someone does something right.
   The SBI Feedback Model, Made Practical
9. Make the gift personal and unexpected
   Unsolicited, personal gifts generate more reciprocity obligation than generic or expected ones.
   The Rule of Reciprocity, Made Practical
10. Apply three good things to work contexts specifically
    Use the exercise to rewire what you notice about your work day — contribution, competence, and collaboration.
    Three Good Things: The Evidence-Based Gratitude Practice

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