Coaching practices for Credible Praise
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- My praise is all vague "nice work, good stuff" while every critique I give is razor-specific
- When someone does something genuinely great I tend to file it away to mention at their review, and by the time it comes around it’s gone cold and vague
- I tossed off a "great work" to someone and watched it land flat, because we both knew I hadn’t really looked at what they did
- I praise my kid constantly
- I praise my kid constantly
Practices that may help
- Make praise as specific as criticism
Vague praise is nearly worthless; name exactly what was good and why.
Radical Candor, Made Practical - One-minute praisings: specific, immediate, genuine
Praise that names the exact behavior immediately after it occurs reinforces that behavior far more effectively than delayed or generic recognition.
The One Minute Manager: Three Practices That Still Work - Give recognition that names the person’s specific effort, not just the outcome
Generic praise signals you were not paying attention; specific recognition proves you were.
Caring Personally: The Foundation of Radical Candor - Encourage specific contributions and efforts
"You set the table without being asked — that helped the whole family" is more powerful than "Good job."
Positive Discipline (Jane Nelsen) - Sportscast what you see rather than directing
Narrate the play without evaluation, question, or instruction.
Special Time (Lawrence Cohen — Playful Parenting) - Give recognition generously and specifically
Call out others’ contributions publicly, specifically, and without claiming credit for yourself.
Give and Take: The Giver Advantage - Seek accurate feedback, not exclusively positive feedback
Train yourself to want feedback that is true over feedback that feels good.
Self-Verification Theory, Made Practical - Collect and deploy real, specific testimonials
A specific, verifiable account of one person’s experience outperforms a generic five-star rating.
Social Proof, Made Practical - Use SBI for positive feedback, not just correction
Name the situation, behavior, and impact when someone does something right.
The SBI Feedback Model, Made Practical - Praise process, not innate ability
Acknowledge effort, strategy, and choices rather than "you’re so smart".
Growth Mindset: The Honest Version
Related concerns
- Avoid Ability Praise
Vague praise is nearly worthless; name exactly what was good and why.
Make praise as specific as criticism
- How To Praise
Vague praise is nearly worthless; name exactly what was good and why.
- Specific Praise
Vague praise is nearly worthless; name exactly what was good and why.
- Effective Praise At Work
Vague praise is nearly worthless; name exactly what was good and why.
- Effort Praise
"You set the table without being asked — that helped the whole family" is more powerful than "Good job."
Encourage specific contributions and efforts
- How To Give Meaningful Praise
Vague praise is nearly worthless; name exactly what was good and why.
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