Coaching practices for Updating Mental Models From Feedback
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- When reality contradicts what I expected, I quietly explain the result away
- I keep making the same kind of mistake, and every time I just try harder and drill the execution more
- I finish a rep and all I can say is "that felt off" or "that was okay"
- Once I’ve made up my mind I dig in and won’t budge until I’m absolutely certain I was wrong
- I read all these brilliant thinking tools and nod along, and then the moment I’m actually facing a hard problem not one of them comes to mind
Practices that may help
- Feedback Loops and Behavior Change
Feedback loops are the mechanism by which information about the gap between current and desired performance reaches the actor and drives adjustment. Cybernetics established the theoretical foundation; decades of applied research confirm that self-monitoring and feedback are among the most robust behavior-change techniques — particularly for health behaviors. The key design questions are feedback frequency, the right metric, and the gap between signal and response. - Update the map from real feedback
When reality contradicts your model, revise the model — not your description of reality.
The Map Is Not the Territory - Feedforward: Future-Focused Feedback That Actually Changes Behavior
Feedforward, developed by executive coach Marshall Goldsmith, replaces backward-looking critique with forward-looking suggestions — asking "what ideas do you have for the future?" rather than "what did I do wrong?" The core claim is that people are more receptive to ideas about what they could do than to judgments about what they did. Evidence is primarily clinical and practitioner-based rather than from controlled trials. - Use errors and failures to refine the mental representation, not just the technique
When something goes wrong, ask: "What was wrong with my model?" — not just "What was wrong with my execution?"
Mental Representations: The Expert’s Internal Map - Compare each practice attempt to your mental representation of the target
After every attempt, evaluate it against your internal model — not against how it felt.
Mental Representations: The Expert’s Internal Map - Update beliefs frequently and in small increments
When new evidence arrives, adjust your probability estimate — even if the change is small.
Superforecasting - Maintain a personal model catalog with examples
Keep a written inventory of your models, each illustrated with a real example from your own experience.
Mental Models: Charlie Munger’s Latticework Approach - Install feedback loops to track behavior and adjust
Measure the behavior directly and use the data to update your intervention, not just your motivation.
The COM-B Model and Behavior Change Wheel - Choose the right moment and setting for feedback
Feedback lands in proportion to how safe and ready the receiver feels — timing and privacy matter.
The SBI Feedback Model, Made Practical - Seek developmental feedback, not just performance feedback
Ask for feedback that challenges your assumptions about how you see, not just how you perform.
Kegan’s Subject-Object Theory, Made Practical
Related concerns
- Behavioral Feedback
Feedback loops are the mechanism by which information about the gap between current and desired performance reaches the actor and drives adjustment. Cybernetics established the theoretical foundation; decades of applied research confirm that self-monitoring and feedback are among the most robust behavior-change techniques — particularly for health behaviors. The key design questions are feedback frequency, the right metric, and the gap between signal and response.
- Ccl Feedback Model
The SBI model (Situation–Behavior–Impact), developed by the Center for Creative Leadership, structures feedback by anchoring it to an observable moment, describing the behavior seen rather than inferring motive, and naming the actual impact. This reduces defensiveness and attribution errors; the model is established clinical practice in leadership development, though direct RCT comparisons to other feedback approaches are limited.
- Corrective Feedback Systems
Feedback lands in proportion to how safe and ready the receiver feels — timing and privacy matter.
Choose the right moment and setting for feedback
- Developmental Feedback
Ask for feedback that challenges your assumptions about how you see, not just how you perform.
Seek developmental feedback, not just performance feedback
- Feedback And Focus
Feedforward, developed by executive coach Marshall Goldsmith, replaces backward-looking critique with forward-looking suggestions — asking "what ideas do you have for the future?" rather than "what did I do wrong?" The core claim is that people are more receptive to ideas about what they could do than to judgments about what they did. Evidence is primarily clinical and practitioner-based rather than from controlled trials.
- Nudge Feedback
A nudge is any change in how choices are presented that predictably shifts behavior without eliminating options or changing incentives — and the evidence that well-designed nudges work is strong across savings, health, and energy use, though effect sizes vary and some nudges decay over time.
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