Coaching practices for Values Based Action Act Before Bed

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • I know what matters to me in the abstract, but it stays a nice idea
  • I’ve identified the area I want to change and now I’m just sitting on a vague intention like "be more present with my kids"
  • I’ve done all the clarifying and ranking and I have this lovely list of values
  • So much of what I do in a day is just dodging discomfort
  • I’m still doing all the things I committed to, but somewhere along the way they stopped meaning anything

Practices that may help

  1. Values-Based Action (ACT), Made Practical
    Values-based action in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) means choosing behaviors that are consistent with what matters most to you — your values — rather than behaviors driven by avoidance of pain or approval-seeking. ACT distinguishes values (directions, ongoing) from goals (destinations, finishable); the emphasis is on the quality of action in the present rather than outcome attainment. ACT has robust meta-analytic support; values-based action is identified as a core mechanism.
  2. Committed action: making specific, values-linked behavioral commitments
    Translate a value into a specific, observable action you commit to this week.
    Values-Based Action (ACT), Made Practical
  3. Committed Action, Made Practical
    Committed action — a core ACT process developed by Steven Hayes — means taking concrete, repeated steps toward what you value even while discomfort is present, rather than waiting for the feeling of readiness. It is the behavioral spine of ACT, which has substantial randomized-trial support across anxiety, depression, chronic pain, and other conditions.
  4. Turn the chosen domain into a committed action
    Convert the domain insight into a concrete, timed, values-linked behavior — not a vague intention.
    Values Bullseye, Made Practical
  5. Take value-consistent committed action
    Translate each value into one concrete behavior you can do this week.
    Values Clarification, Made Practical
  6. Values compass check: is this action moving toward or away?
    Before committing to a behavior, ask whether it moves toward or away from your stated values.
    Values-Based Action (ACT), Made Practical
  7. Close the loop: check values-alignment after acting
    After a committed action, briefly confirm it expressed the value — or revise what you do next time.
    Committed Action, Made Practical
  8. Link every action to a named value
    Before you begin, name the value the action expresses — not just the goal it serves.
    Committed Action, Made Practical
  9. Values clarification: what matters most to you?
    Identify 3–5 core values — not what you should value, but what actually matters when life is stripped back.
    Values-Based Action (ACT), Made Practical
  10. Defuse from thoughts that block values-based action
    Identify the specific thoughts that stop you from acting on your values, and apply defusion rather than argument.
    Values-Based Action (ACT), Made Practical

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