Coaching practices for Verbal Self Instruction Adhd
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- In my head I keep meaning to start and somehow never do, but on the rare times I actually say out loud "okay, I’m opening it now," my hands seem to follow the words
- The instant my mind has nothing to hold onto it floods with instructions and second-guessing
- When a problem gets hard my mind just goes quiet and blank and I sort of stall out staring at it
- I end up saying the same thing five times, louder each time, until I’m basically yelling before anything happens
- I already know the exact situations that throw me
Practices that may help
- Use verbal self-instruction to initiate
Say out loud — or in writing — the exact action you are about to do before you do it.
Task Initiation: Overcoming the Start Problem - Give Self 2 a concrete focus anchor
Occupy Self 1 with a specific sensory observation task so it stops issuing unhelpful instructions.
The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1 - Use self-directed speech to regulate problem-solving
Talk yourself through a hard task aloud; private speech is an internalized coaching voice.
Zone of Proximal Development: Learning at Your Real Edge - Give clear, calm, single instructions
One specific direction at a time, calmly stated once, is more effective than repeated commands.
Triple P Parenting (Matthew Sanders) - Prepare "if-then" self-talk scripts for predictable pressure moments
Pre-script your self-talk response to the specific situations most likely to derail you.
Self-Talk Strategies, Made Practical - Attention Training Technique (ATT), Made Practical
The Attention Training Technique (ATT), developed by Adrian Wells, is a structured auditory exercise that rebuilds voluntary control over where attention goes — directly countering the self-focused, threat-locked attention that sustains anxiety and health anxiety. Randomised trials support its effectiveness as a standalone and as part of Metacognitive Therapy. - Attention training technique (ATT)
Practice deliberately shifting attention across sounds — a drill that builds attention flexibility and reduces self-focus.
Metacognitive Therapy, Made Practical - Monitor your self-talk patterns to identify what to change
Track what you actually say to yourself during and after performance before trying to change it.
Self-Talk Strategies, Made Practical - Use instructional self-talk for precision skill tasks
Use short technical cues that direct attention to the key movement parameter rather than the outcome.
Self-Talk Strategies, Made Practical - Metacognitive regulation
Adjust your strategy mid-session when you detect that comprehension or progress has stalled.
Self-Regulated Learning: Taking Control of How You Learn
Related concerns
- Instructional Self Talk
Self-talk — the internal or external commentary we generate before and during performance — reliably affects performance outcomes, according to meta-analyses by Hatzigeorgiadis and colleagues. Instructional self-talk improves fine motor skill; motivational self-talk improves power and endurance tasks. The specific content and function of the self-talk matter more than whether it is positive or negative.
- Track Self Talk Performance
Track what you actually say to yourself during and after performance before trying to change it.
Monitor your self-talk patterns to identify what to change
- Behavior Specific Self Talk
Pre-script your self-talk response to the specific situations most likely to derail you.
Prepare "if-then" self-talk scripts for predictable pressure moments
- Does Self Talk Help Performance
Self-talk — the internal or external commentary we generate before and during performance — reliably affects performance outcomes, according to meta-analyses by Hatzigeorgiadis and colleagues. Instructional self-talk improves fine motor skill; motivational self-talk improves power and endurance tasks. The specific content and function of the self-talk matter more than whether it is positive or negative.
- How To Develop Self Talk Cues
Build self-talk cues from your own best performance experiences — not from a generic list.
Develop personal cue words that have real meaning for you
- How To Use Self Talk For Skill
Self-talk — the internal or external commentary we generate before and during performance — reliably affects performance outcomes, according to meta-analyses by Hatzigeorgiadis and colleagues. Instructional self-talk improves fine motor skill; motivational self-talk improves power and endurance tasks. The specific content and function of the self-talk matter more than whether it is positive or negative.
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