Coaching practices for Via Shadow Strengths

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • The very thing I’m best at turns on me under pressure
  • Certain traits in other people set me off way out of proportion
  • Keeping up the version of me everyone expects
  • I catch myself scanning everyone around me for what’s wrong with them, and I want to flip that lens
  • I can talk about my feelings all day from the neck up, but the real stuff seems to be locked in my body

Practices that may help

  1. Map how your strengths distort under stress
    Identify the "overuse" and "underuse" of each signature strength — how they show up when you’re at your worst.
    VIA Character Strengths, Made Practical
  2. Shadow Work
    Shadow work is the process of becoming aware of — and integrating — the parts of yourself you have disowned, suppressed, or never examined: the traits, impulses, and capabilities you hide from others and from yourself. Rooted in Jungian psychology, it is a clinically used framework rather than a rigorously trialed intervention; the mechanistic rationale is strong and aligns with modern emotion regulation and self-concept research.
  3. The emotional charge inventory
    List the traits that trigger your strongest reactions in others — those reactions are mirrors.
    Shadow Work
  4. Examining the gap between persona and self
    Map who you perform for others versus who you experience yourself as in private — the gap is shadow territory.
    Shadow Work
  5. Spot and name character strengths in others
    Notice and explicitly name the character strengths you observe in people around you.
    VIA Character Strengths, Made Practical
  6. Tracking shadow material through the body
    Notice where in the body suppressed reactions live — tension, constriction, or deadness are somatic shadow clues.
    Shadow Work
  7. Identify your core strengths through your own history
    Find the recurring threads in your best moments to name the strengths that are actually yours.
    Life Review and Reminiscence Therapy
  8. Connect individual strengths to the broader virtues they serve
    Understand which of the six VIA virtues your signature strengths express, and what that reveals about your character.
    VIA Character Strengths, Made Practical
  9. The integration letter to a disowned part
    Write directly to the trait, impulse, or capacity you most want to disown — then listen for its response.
    Shadow Work
  10. Take the VIA survey and identify your signature strengths
    Discover your top five to seven character strengths using the validated VIA survey.
    VIA Character Strengths, Made Practical

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