Coaching practices for Wave Metaphor Cravings

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• The thing I’m craving lights up so vivid and mouth-watering in my mind
• When the craving hits I get stuck in this endless head-argument
• When a craving hits it feels like it’ll just keep building and building until I cave
• The craving to pour the drink, raid the fridge, send the message lands like it absolutely cannot wait
• When I want something I get caught up in how it would feel to have it

Practices that may help

1. Cool down a hot temptation by reframing it
   See the reward abstractly ("just a picture of it") to drain its emotional heat.
   Delayed Gratification, Made Practical
2. Locate the urge in your body
   Describe where and how the craving shows up physically instead of arguing with it in your head.
   Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving
3. Ride the wave to its peak and down
   Watch the urge rise, crest, and fall without acting — like a wave you are surfing.
   Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving
4. Urge Surfing: Riding Out the Impulse Without Acting
   Treat an urge to act impulsively like a wave — observe it rise and fall without being swept away.
   The STOP Skill: A DBT Technique for Crisis Moments
5. Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving
   Urge surfing means treating a craving like a wave — observing it rise, peak, and fall instead of either fighting it or acting on it. Drawn from Alan Marlatt’s mindfulness-based relapse prevention, it works because urges are time-limited and pass on their own when not fed. It is a well-established clinical technique for everyday cravings; for serious addiction, it belongs alongside professional support, not instead of it.
6. Cool the purchase by abstracting it
   See the item in "cool," abstract terms to drain the craving before it drives a decision.
   The Marshmallow Test and Your Money
7. Understand the anatomy of an urge
   Learn that urges have a beginning, a peak, and an end — and that acting on or fighting them changes the arc.
   Ride the Wave (Urge Management), Made Practical
8. Clouds passing through sky: thoughts as temporary phenomena
   Use the sky metaphor to relate to thoughts and feelings as passing weather rather than defining facts.
   The Witness Stance
9. Notice the urge as it arises
   Catch the craving early, the moment it starts, before it becomes an automatic action.
   Urge Surfing: Riding the Wave of a Craving
10. Extinguish conditioned cravings through cue exposure without response
    Repeatedly expose yourself to a craving cue without performing the associated behavior to weaken the conditioned urge.
    Classical Conditioning and Habit Triggers

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