Coaching practices for What to Spend Money on

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• I spend on whatever everyone around me seems to spend on, and at the end of it I couldn’t tell you what actually made me happy
• Almost all my discretionary money goes to treats for myself and the lift fades fast, and I notice the moments I actually felt good were the small things I did for other people
• I keep buying myself things expecting a lift and the thrill is gone within a week
• When I do have money to spend beyond the basics I keep funneling it into more stuff that I’m bored of within a month, and some part of me senses I’d get far more lasting joy out of a trip or buying back my own time
• I honestly can’t tell which of my purchases actually make me happier and which are just habit

Practices that may help

1. Define your Rich Life before designing your spending
   Decide what genuinely brings you joy or meaning before allocating a single dollar.
   Conscious Spending Plan, Made Practical
2. Allocate part of your values budget to others
   Prosocial spending — money spent on others — generates more lasting satisfaction per dollar than equivalent self-spending.
   Values-Based Spending, Made Practical
3. Invest in experiences rather than possessions
   Experiential spending produces more lasting happiness than material spending of equivalent cost.
   Time Affluence Practices (Cassie Holmes)
4. Spend the enough on time and experiences, not the treadmill
   When you do spend above enough, direct it where adaptation is slowest.
   The Enough Mindset, Made Practical
5. Audit what you actually miss during the fast
   Track which skipped purchases produce genuine regret versus mild inconvenience — this is your real spending values map.
   The Spending Fast, Made Practical
6. Apply the "value per dollar" test to major purchases
   Before a large purchase, ask how much wellbeing per dollar this generates relative to alternatives at the same cost.
   Values-Based Spending, Made Practical
7. Values-Based Spending, Made Practical
   Values-based spending is the practice of deliberately allocating money toward what you have identified as genuinely important to you — and cutting spending that does not reflect those priorities. It is not minimalism or frugality; it is a decision framework that uses your stated values as the filter for every financial choice. The evidence base is primarily from financial psychology and hedonic wellbeing research, not clinical trials.
8. Prosocial Spending: Why Giving Boosts Happiness
   Elizabeth Dunn and Michael Norton’s research found that spending money on others — "prosocial spending" — reliably produces more happiness than spending the same amount on oneself, across income levels and cultures. The effect is real and replicates, though it is not unlimited: how you give matters as much as whether you give.
9. Reverse the order: priority before leftovers
   Save first and spend what remains, instead of spending first and saving what remains.
   Pay Yourself First, Made Practical
10. Spend on experiences rather than possessions
    Experiences resist adaptation better than objects because they exist as memories that improve over time.
    The Hedonic Treadmill, Made Practical

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