Coaching practices for What Your to Do List Says About You

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• My to-do list has everything I could ever conceivably do crammed onto it, so there’s no honest line between someday-maybe and what I’m actually committing to today
• I keep saying certain things matter to me, but when I look at what I actually pick up and what just sits there year after year, the gap is uncomfortable
• My to-do list just keeps swelling with everything that could be done, and with no clear picture of what "done" even looks like at the end, I have no way to tell what actually deserves to be on it.
• My to-do list has swollen into a dumping ground for every someday-maybe idea I’ve ever had, so it’s less a plan than a wall of guilt
• My list is just a flat wall of tasks that all look equally urgent, so I keep grabbing whatever’s easiest instead of whatever matters

Practices that may help

1. Separate "will-do" from "to-do" lists
   Keep a master to-do list distinct from the closed daily "will-do" list that you actually commit to.
   Do It Tomorrow, Made Practical
2. Use the someday list as a values barometer
   What you keep adding to the someday list — and what you keep not doing — reveals what you actually value versus what you think you value.
   The Someday List
3. Think in scenarios and stories, not task lists
   Describe your ideal outcome for a period as a short narrative before breaking it into actions.
   Getting Results the Agile Way (AGS), Made Practical
4. Only put tasks on the board that you’ve explicitly decided to do
   Your Kanban board is not a wish list — only tasks you have consciously committed to belong in To Do.
   Personal Kanban, Made Practical
5. The ABCDE prioritization method
   Label every task A (must), B (should), C (nice), D (delegate), or E (eliminate) before starting.
   Eat That Frog, Made Practical
6. Keep OKRs separate from your task list
   OKRs say where you are going; your to-do list says what you do today — do not merge them.
   OKRs for People, Not Just Companies
7. Calendar time blocking
   Give every task a specific start and end time on your calendar.
   Time Blocking, Made Practical
8. Plan from roles and goals, not from tasks
   Before listing tasks, list your key roles this week and name one meaningful goal for each.
   Big Rocks First
9. Work from a closed daily list
   Write today’s task list before the day begins, then refuse to add new items to it.
   Do It Tomorrow, Made Practical
10. Align daily work with meaningful goals
    Ground your MITs and projects in goals that genuinely matter to you, not just what is urgent.
    Zen To Done (ZTD), Made Practical

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