Coaching practices for There's This Feeling Sitting in Me and I Can Feel it in My Body but I Don't Really Get What It's About or What it Wants From Me and I Want to Get Curious About it Instead of Just Analyzing Myself
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- There’s this feeling sitting in me and I can feel it in my body, but I don’t really get what it’s about or what it wants from me, and I want to get curious about it instead of just analyzing myself.
- I can feel the feeling and I’m not running from it, but I have no idea what it’s really about
- I’m stuck endlessly in my head
- When I try to ask "who am I" it just turns into more abstract thinking and goes nowhere
- When I think about this whole situation there’s something my body clearly registers
Practices that may help
- I — Investigate with gentle, curious attention
Bring kind curiosity to the emotion: Where is it in the body? What does it most need?
RAIN Meditation: Tara Brach’s Four-Step Practice - RAIN — Investigate with kindness
Gently explore what the feeling is about and what it most needs — with curiosity, not interrogation.
Radical Acceptance, Made Practical - Track body sensation (the felt sense)
Follow raw physical sensation with curiosity — tingling, warmth, pressure — rather than the storyline.
Somatic Experiencing, Honestly Explained - Locate the feeling of I-ness directly
Before pursuing "Who am I?" conceptually, first find the raw felt sense of I-ness in the body.
Self-Inquiry: Ramana Maharshi’s Path of Direct Investigation - Find the felt sense
Locate the unclear, whole-body sense of a situation before you name it.
Focusing and the Felt Sense, Made Practical - Ask the felt sense what it needs
Once a handle fits, gently ask the felt sense: "What does this need? What would help?"
Focusing and the Felt Sense, Made Practical - Find a handle word or image
Let a word, phrase, or image arise from the felt sense — not the other way around.
Focusing and the Felt Sense, Made Practical - The interoceptive body scan
Move attention slowly through the body, sensing internal signals without changing them.
Interoception, Explained - Locate the emotion in the body as well as naming it
After naming an emotion on the Feeling Wheel, find where it lives in the body.
The Feeling Wheel: Building Emotional Vocabulary - Notice and carry forward the felt shift
Recognize the physical release that signals the felt sense has been genuinely met.
Focusing and the Felt Sense, Made Practical
Related concerns
- When Focusing Felt Sense Asking The Felt Sense
Once a handle fits, gently ask the felt sense: "What does this need? What would help?"
Ask the felt sense what it needs
- Asking The Felt Sense
Once a handle fits, gently ask the felt sense: "What does this need? What would help?"
- When Radical Acceptance Rain Investigate
Gently explore what the feeling is about and what it most needs — with curiosity, not interrogation.
RAIN — Investigate with kindness
- When Self Inquiry Ramana The Feeling Of I
Before pursuing "Who am I?" conceptually, first find the raw felt sense of I-ness in the body.
Locate the feeling of I-ness directly
- Felt Sense Explained
Let a word, phrase, or image arise from the felt sense — not the other way around.
Find a handle word or image
- Felt Sense Technique
Locate the unclear, whole-body sense of a situation before you name it.
Find the felt sense
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