Coaching practices for For a Little While Right After Something Takes My Breath Away the Stuff I'd Been Stressing About Genuinely Feels Smaller and Farther Off but Within an Hour I'm Right Back to Fretting Over it and I Wish I Could Hold Onto That Re Proportioned Feeling Instead of Watching it Slip Away So Fast
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- For a little while right after something takes my breath away, the stuff I’d been stressing about genuinely feels smaller and farther off
- This thing has swallowed my whole field of view
- I’m so wrapped up in my own looping worries that they fill my whole world
- In the grip of this, the problem feels total and permanent
- When something makes me feel tiny against how huge the world is, my reflex is to flinch and grab back control, like feeling small is a threat to fend off
Practices that may help
- Write from a small-self perspective after awe
After an awe experience, write briefly from the perspective of someone whose personal concerns feel appropriately small.
Awe and Well-Being, Made Practical - Ask: how will this look in one year, five years?
Project forward to check whether the catastrophe still looks catastrophic from a temporal distance.
Decatastrophizing, Made Practical - Look for awe and scale
Seek vast or intricate natural sights that produce a felt sense of awe.
Forest Bathing (Shinrin-Yoku), Honestly Explained - Zoom out in time
Ask how much this will matter in ten years to shrink a present crisis to size.
Self-Distancing: Thinking Clearly About Your Own Problems - Courting the small self
Seek experiences that make you feel small in a good way — and notice the relief in it.
Awe Walks, and the Science of Wonder - The view from outside your life
Mentally zoom out until your current problem shrinks to its actual scale.
Zhuangzi and the Practice of Perspective Shift - Deliberately invoke the small-self shift
Seek an encounter with something genuinely vast to let your personal concerns be re-proportioned.
Awe and the Small Self - The temporal zoom-out
Set today’s problem against a year, a decade, a century — and ask whether it still ranks.
The View from Above - The view from above
Zoom out — picture your situation from high above, in the scale of the city, the world, and time.
Stoicism, as a Set of Practices - Expand: widen awareness back to body and situation
After the breath anchor, expand attention outward to include the whole body and the surrounding moment.
The Three-Minute Breathing Space
Related concerns
- When Awe And The Small Self Small Self Practice
Seek an encounter with something genuinely vast to let your personal concerns be re-proportioned.
Deliberately invoke the small-self shift
- When Decatastrophizing Time Perspective Shift
Project forward to check whether the catastrophe still looks catastrophic from a temporal distance.
Ask: how will this look in one year, five years?
- When Meditations Marcus Aurelius Cosmic And Time Perspective
Zoom out — picture your situation from high above, in the scale of the city, the world, and time.
The view from above
- When Zhuangzi Perspective Shift View From Outside Life
Mentally zoom out until your current problem shrinks to its actual scale.
The view from outside your life
- When Attention Training Technique Divided Attention Sounds
Expand awareness to hold three or more sounds simultaneously without collapsing back to one.
Divided attention — hold multiple sources at once
- When Awe Walks Small Self
Seek experiences that make you feel small in a good way — and notice the relief in it.
Courting the small self
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