Coaching practices for I Notice I Only Go Looking for the Stuff That Backs Up What I Already Think and It's Starting to Bug Me That I Can't Even Say What Would Prove Me Wrong Let Alone That I've Gone Looking for it
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- I notice I only go looking for the stuff that backs up what I already think, and it’s starting to bug me that I can’t even say what would prove me wrong
- I only ever seem to run into facts that prove me right, and I’m starting to suspect that’s because I’m quietly steering toward them
- Once I believe something, I only ever notice the things that prove me right
- Once I’ve made up my mind, I notice I only ever see the evidence that proves me right and the rest just slides past me
- Everything I read and everyone I talk to already agrees with me, and it’s started to feel less like being right and more like I’ve sealed myself inside an echo chamber where nothing can challenge me.
Practices that may help
- Actively seek evidence that would disconfirm your belief
Ask: "What would change my mind?" and then look for exactly that.
Bayesian Thinking: How to Update Beliefs Rationally - Actively seek evidence that would prove you wrong
Ask what would change your mind — and then look for it.
The Scout Mindset - Actively seek disconfirming evidence
Deliberately look for evidence that your current belief is wrong.
Superforecasting - Consider the opposite
Actively argue the case against your first conclusion before accepting it.
Thinking, Fast and Slow, Made Usable - Deliberately seek out sources that disagree with you
For any important belief, find and read the best-regarded opposing view.
Confirmation Bias: Seeing What You Expect to See - Structure the analysis before searching for evidence
Define what you’re looking for and what would count as evidence before starting your search.
Confirmation Bias: Seeing What You Expect to See - Actively seek information that disconfirms your view
Deliberately look for the best evidence against your current position before committing to it.
Naive Realism: Why Everyone Thinks They See Things as They Are - Examine the evidence for and against
Systematically list what supports your interpretation and what doesn’t — like a fair-minded lawyer, not a prosecutor.
Check the Facts, Made Practical - Examine the evidence for and against the thought
Treat the thought as a hypothesis and find the actual evidence on both sides.
Cognitive Restructuring: The CBT Method for Changing Unhelpful Thoughts - Specify what would falsify your belief before you look at evidence
Write down what evidence would prove you wrong before you go looking.
Falsification Thinking
Related concerns
- When Naive Realism Seek Disconfirming Information
Deliberately look for the best evidence against your current position before committing to it.
Actively seek information that disconfirms your view
- When Scout Mindset Seek Disconfirming Evidence
Ask what would change your mind — and then look for it.
Actively seek evidence that would prove you wrong
- Confirmation Bias Seeing What You Expect To See During Conflict
Confirmation bias is the tendency to seek, notice, and remember information that confirms existing beliefs, while ignoring or discounting contradictory evidence. It is among the most robustly documented cognitive biases. Debiasing is difficult and partial — knowing about it helps less than most people assume — but structured practices (actively seeking disconfirming evidence, pre-mortems, and adversarial collaboration) reliably reduce its impact.
- Debiasing Confirmation Bias
Confirmation bias is the tendency to seek, notice, and remember information that confirms existing beliefs, while ignoring or discounting contradictory evidence. It is among the most robustly documented cognitive biases. Debiasing is difficult and partial — knowing about it helps less than most people assume — but structured practices (actively seeking disconfirming evidence, pre-mortems, and adversarial collaboration) reliably reduce its impact.
- Finding Disconfirming Evidence
Deliberately look for evidence that your current belief is wrong.
Actively seek disconfirming evidence
- How To Avoid Confirmation Bias
Confirmation bias is the tendency to seek, notice, and remember information that confirms existing beliefs, while ignoring or discounting contradictory evidence. It is among the most robustly documented cognitive biases. Debiasing is difficult and partial — knowing about it helps less than most people assume — but structured practices (actively seeking disconfirming evidence, pre-mortems, and adversarial collaboration) reliably reduce its impact.
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