Coaching practices for When I'm Handed the Rule Up Front it Goes in One Ear and Out the Other but When I've Been Wrestling with the Examples First and Then the Principle Clicks That's the Version That Actually Stays with Me
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- When I’m handed the rule up front it goes in one ear and out the other, but when I’ve been wrestling with the examples first and then the principle clicks, that’s the version that actually stays with me.
- When someone starts with the theory first my eyes glaze over and none of it sticks
- I learn something from one example and feel sure I understand it, then the moment it shows up looking even slightly different I don’t recognize it
- I learned it from one example and thought I had it, but the second the problem looks even slightly different — new numbers, new wording — I’m lost, because I memorized that one case instead of the actual idea.
- I can recite this principle perfectly in the exact context I learned it, but the moment I try to apply the same idea to a different situation it falls apart in my hands
Practices that may help
- Expose examples before naming the rule (inductive first)
Present several cases before stating the principle; let the learner induce the pattern.
Concrete Examples: How to Make Abstract Ideas Stick - Cycle from concrete to abstract and back
Start with a story, name the principle, then return to a new application.
Concrete Examples: How to Make Abstract Ideas Stick - Use multiple varied examples to map the concept’s true shape
Three different examples reveal what one example hides — the edges of the concept.
Concrete Examples: How to Make Abstract Ideas Stick - Study multiple varied examples of the same principle before generalizing
Comparing examples that share a deep principle but differ on surface features builds transferable knowledge faster than repetition of similar examples.
The Worked Examples Effect: Learn Faster by Studying Solutions First - Adjacent-domain transfer testing
Test understanding by applying the mechanism to a new domain — genuine understanding transfers; IOED does not.
Illusion of Explanatory Depth: You Know Less Than You Think - Practice equity: bend general rules to particular cases
Apply rules with awareness that no rule perfectly fits every situation; the wise person corrects for the fit.
Phronesis: Aristotle’s Practical Wisdom - Externalize tacit knowledge through structured reflection after performance
Immediately after a performance, narrate what you did and why — to capture the living rule before it fades.
Tacit Knowledge: The Skill You Can’t Fully Explain - Plan a concrete experiment to test your new principle
Close the loop by deciding specifically how you will apply the extracted lesson next time.
Structured Reflection: Kolb’s Learning Cycle in Practice - Accumulate varied situational episodes to move from novice to competent
Build a library of real cases — not just more rules — to develop situational recognition.
The Dreyfus Model: Five Stages from Novice to Expert - Generate your own example after learning a concept
Immediately after encountering a concept, create a fresh example from your own life or field.
Concrete Examples: How to Make Abstract Ideas Stick
Related concerns
- When Illusion Of Explanatory Depth Adjacent Domain Transfer
Test understanding by applying the mechanism to a new domain — genuine understanding transfers; IOED does not.
Adjacent-domain transfer testing
- Concrete Examples In Learning
Concrete examples anchor abstract concepts to real, retrievable memory traces, dramatically improving comprehension and recall. The learning-science evidence for example-based encoding is strong — the challenge is using varied, high-quality examples rather than relying on one familiar case that misleads more than it teaches.
- Concreteness Training
Concrete examples anchor abstract concepts to real, retrievable memory traces, dramatically improving comprehension and recall. The learning-science evidence for example-based encoding is strong — the challenge is using varied, high-quality examples rather than relying on one familiar case that misleads more than it teaches.
- Example Based Learning
Three different examples reveal what one example hides — the edges of the concept.
Use multiple varied examples to map the concept’s true shape
- Examples Before Rules
Present several cases before stating the principle; let the learner induce the pattern.
Expose examples before naming the rule (inductive first)
- Foil Examples Learning
Three different examples reveal what one example hides — the edges of the concept.
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