Coaching practices for My Team Keeps Bringing Me Bare Problems and Looking at Me to Solve Them So I End Up Doing All the Thinking and I Can't Tell Whether I'm Holding the Answers Too Tightly or They've Just Learned It's Easier to Hand it Up to Me

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• My team keeps bringing me bare problems and looking at me to solve them, so I end up doing all the thinking
• Everyone brings their problems to me to solve, I jump in and fix each one, and now I’m the bottleneck for everything while my people never grow
• The moment someone brings me a problem the answer is already on my lips and I just hand it over
• My people route every little decision up to me, even ones squarely in their own authority
• I keep dropping problems on my boss’s desk and waiting for them to tell me what to do, and I can feel it reads as me not owning my work

Practices that may help

1. Push recommendations up, not problems
   Require reports to bring a recommendation alongside any problem — it’s a delegation practice, not just a time-saver.
   Delegation Levels, Made Practical
2. Give the work back without abandoning people
   Resist taking ownership of problems that belong to the people facing the adaptive challenge.
   Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical
3. Stay curious one beat longer before advising
   Resist the urge to give the answer for one more question — ask what they think first.
   The Leader as Coach: A New Management Paradigm
4. Break the advice-dependency loop
   When people come to you for every decision, it signals advice-giving is making them less capable, not more.
   The Leader as Coach: A New Management Paradigm
5. Bring a proposed solution when you bring a problem
   Describe the problem and your recommended path before asking for a decision.
   Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss
6. Challenge assumptions and invite new thinking
   Actively encourage your team to question old ways and generate new approaches.
   Transformational Leadership, Made Practical
7. Take extreme ownership
   When the team fails, the leader looks first at what the leader did or failed to do.
   Extreme Ownership, Made Practical
8. Map who actually owns the problem
   Identify whose problem it truly is before investing in a solution — the framing often changes when you name the real owner.
   Problem Reframing: Solving the Right Problem First
9. Listen before diagnosing
   Resist the urge to solve until you can restate the problem in terms the other person agrees with.
   The Trust Equation, Made Practical
10. Resist upward (reverse) delegation
    Don’t let the task you delegated jump back onto your desk the first time it gets hard.
    Effective Delegation, Made Practical

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