Coaching practices for Whenever My Week Gets Crazy the First Thing I Axe is My One on Ones and I Keep Telling Myself We'll Catch Up Later but I'm Starting to See That Bumping Them Again and Again is Quietly Telling My People They Don't Matter

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  • Whenever my week gets crazy the first thing I axe is my one-on-ones, and I keep telling myself we’ll catch up later
  • I dive into Monday with no sense of what the week is actually for, so I end up chasing whatever shouts loudest each day and the two or three things that would make the week a real success never get a protected slot.
  • I’m efficient and on top of my tasks, but I’ve lost the thread of why any of it matters
  • Another week just vanished and the few things I actually meant to do never happened
  • The moment a week gets busy I drop the workout, the reading, the good habits entirely

Practices that may help

  1. Make it recurring and genuinely protected
    A standing slot you almost never cancel beats a longer meeting held only when there’s a "reason."
    Effective One-on-Ones, Made Practical
  2. Weekly planning
    Set the week’s priorities and rough blocks before the week starts.
    Time Blocking, Made Practical
  3. Anchor the week to your personal mission statement
    Before weekly planning, briefly re-read your personal mission statement to orient priorities.
    Big Rocks First
  4. Identify and schedule big rocks at the start of each week
    On Monday morning (or Sunday evening), name three "big rocks" and block calendar time for each before anything else.
    Big Rocks First
  5. Identify minimum viable versions of your priorities
    For each priority, define the smallest version that still counts so busy weeks don't erase it.
    The Time Audit
  6. Apply RPM at the weekly level
    Run the result-purpose-MAP sequence on your week each Sunday to set directional focus before Monday begins.
    Tony Robbins’ Rapid Planning Method (RPM), Made Practical
  7. Keep check-ins short — consistency beats comprehensiveness
    A 20-minute check-in every week beats a 3-hour one every quarter.
    The Relationship Check-In: A Structured Practice for Staying Connected
  8. Scheduled, recurring check-ins
    Fix a standing time to report progress, not "whenever we get a chance."
    Accountability Partners
  9. Invest at least 20% of work time in Quadrant II
    Reserve meaningful time each week for activities that are important but not yet urgent.
    Big Rocks First
  10. Spend real time on growth, not just tasks
    Regularly leave the weeds and talk about career, skills, and where they’re headed.
    Effective One-on-Ones, Made Practical

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