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  • I’m terrified of facing the feelings that set me off, and the whole thing feels like one giant wall I either crash into all at once or run from completely
  • The thing I’m scared of sits in my mind as one giant wall of dread, and just thinking about facing it freezes me
  • I’m finally ready to face this fear, but when I picture confronting the whole thing head-on I freeze
  • The fear feels like one solid wall I either climb all at once or not at all, so I keep not at all
  • Every time I try to face this head-on I aim for the scariest version of it, get overwhelmed, and retreat worse off than before

Practices that may help

  1. Build a personal sensation hierarchy
    Map which panic sensations frighten you most, then order them from mildest to most feared.
    Interoceptive Exposure for Panic
  2. Build an exposure hierarchy
    List every feared situation and rank them by distress (0–100) before you do anything else.
    The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical
  3. Build a fear hierarchy
    List feared situations from mildly anxiety-provoking to most feared, then work up from the bottom.
    Exposure Therapy: Facing Fears to Shrink Them
  4. Build an anxiety hierarchy
    List feared situations from least to most distressing before any exposure begins.
    Counter-Conditioning and Systematic Desensitization
  5. Build a personal discomfort gradient
    Rank your avoidances from mildly uncomfortable to overwhelming, then start at the bottom.
    Embracing Discomfort: Turning Resistance Into Growth
  6. Build an avoidance hierarchy
    List the situations, places, people, and thoughts you avoid — ordered from least to most feared.
    Prolonged Exposure Therapy: Principles, Practices, and the Evidence
  7. Add interoceptive rungs for bodily fear
    If you fear the physical sensations of anxiety itself, include exposures that deliberately induce them.
    The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical
  8. Titration (work in tiny, tolerable doses)
    Approach a hard sensation or memory in small sips, not all at once, so you stay regulated.
    Somatic Experiencing, Honestly Explained
  9. Build an avoidance hierarchy and work through it systematically
    List all the situations you avoid because of anxiety, from least to most frightening, then work up the list.
    Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
  10. Graded exposure
    Approach a feared situation in planned, increasing steps instead of avoiding it.
    Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Made Practical

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