Coaching practices for I Decide What Still Needs Work Purely on Vibes This One Feels Solid So I Cross it Off That One Feels Shaky So I Keep Drilling it and I End Up Over Studying the Comfortable Stuff and Abandoning Things the Moment They Feel Okay with No Actual Rule for When Something is Truly Done
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- I decide what still needs work purely on vibes
- I never quite know when something is finished, so I just keep polishing
- There’s always one more thing I could do, so I never actually stop
- I’ve been turning this thing over in my head for weeks, planning and re-planning, and I’ve made nothing
- I decide what to study next purely on a gut feeling of how well a session went, so I keep pouring time into things that just feel shaky and skipping what I’m sure I’ve got
Practices that may help
- Restudy decision protocol
Use a defined decision rule — not a feeling — to determine which items get additional study.
Judgments of Learning: Why You Misjudge What You’ve Learned - Define "done" before you start
Specify the minimum criteria for a complete output before beginning, so you have a clear stop condition.
Parkinson's Law, Made Practical - Using "enough" as a stopping rule
Decide in advance what counts as enough, so you can stop instead of always optimizing.
Slow Living, Made Practical - Bias toward action over deliberation
Ship a rough version fast to learn what the problem actually is rather than theorizing indefinitely.
Creative Confidence, Made Practical - Trusting performance data over feeling
Use your retrieval test scores to decide what to study next — not how the material felt.
The Fluency Illusion: Why Easy Reading Fools You Into Thinking You’ve Learned - Tolerating and valuing incompleteness
Practise stopping a task or project while it is still good-enough but not finished, and noticing that the world does not end.
Wabi-Sabi: Finding Beauty in Imperfection - Adopt satisficing instead of maximizing
Set a "good enough" threshold before you search, then stop when you hit it.
Choice Overload, Made Practical - Experiment without attachment to outcome
Make many small experiments and treat each result as information — not as success or failure.
The Creative Act: Rick Rubin’s Approach to Making - Establish a mastery baseline before overlearning
Define the precise point of first reliable mastery, because overlearning is measured from there.
Overlearning: When Practicing Past Mastery Pays Off - Compare each practice attempt to your mental representation of the target
After every attempt, evaluate it against your internal model — not against how it felt.
Mental Representations: The Expert’s Internal Map
Related concerns
- How Can I Discourage Doing A Poor Job Without Being A Nitpicking Perfectionist
See perfectionism as a shield against judgment, not a path to excellence — and set it down.
Let go of perfectionism
- Incompleteness Tolerance
Practise stopping a task or project while it is still good-enough but not finished, and noticing that the world does not end.
Tolerating and valuing incompleteness
- Knowing When To Stop
Recognize the natural stopping point of an action rather than pushing past it out of habit or anxiety.
Knowing when to stop
- When Cognitive Apprenticeship Reflection On Performance
Systematically compare your performance to an expert model to build accurate self-assessment.
Structured reflection on performance
- When Parkinsons Law Minimum Viable Output
Specify the minimum criteria for a complete output before beginning, so you have a clear stop condition.
Define "done" before you start
- When Slow Living Enough As A Stopping Rule
Decide in advance what counts as enough, so you can stop instead of always optimizing.
Using "enough" as a stopping rule
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