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- There are things I treat as plain facts about myself and the world, and I’m starting to suspect some of them are just views I’ve never questioned
- I’m stuck in a knot over a decision and I keep treating my read of it as plain fact
- There’s this thing I’m treating as obviously true and building everything on top of
- I can spot everyone else’s blind spots instantly
- In my head the things I’m sure of and the things I’m just guessing at all run together as one blur, so I end up treating my assumptions like hard limits
Practices that may help
- Conduct a subject-object audit
Identify what is currently running you without your awareness versus what you can observe and question.
Kegan’s Subject-Object Theory, Made Practical - The assumption audit
Surface and question the beliefs that are driving a current decision or conflict.
Svadhyaya: Self-Study as a Daily Practice - Use Socratic questioning to test each belief
Interrogate every claim with “how do I know this is true?” until only bedrock remains.
First-Principles Thinking, Made Usable - Question your own objectivity explicitly
Ask yourself what forces might be shaping your perception before assuming you see things clearly.
Naive Realism: Why Everyone Thinks They See Things as They Are - Separate facts from assumptions explicitly
Sort what you actually know from what you’re assuming, in two visible columns.
First-Principles Thinking, Made Usable - Distinguishing automatic thoughts from core beliefs
Learn to recognize when you’ve reached a core belief versus still being at the surface thought level.
The Downward Arrow: Uncovering the Core Beliefs Behind Distress - Clouds passing through sky: thoughts as temporary phenomena
Use the sky metaphor to relate to thoughts and feelings as passing weather rather than defining facts.
The Witness Stance - Hold beliefs as estimates, not identity commitments
Treat each belief as a probability rather than a flag to plant.
The Scout Mindset - Separate feelings from facts
Treat "I feel incompetent" as a feeling to examine, not a fact to act on.
Overcoming Imposter Syndrome, Made Practical - Emotional reasoning
Treat a feeling as direct evidence about external reality: "I feel like a fraud, so I must be one."
Cognitive Distortions: The Thinking Errors Behind Anxiety and Depression
Related concerns
- Examine Your Assumptions
Name the assumptions filling the gap between the data you selected and the interpretation you reached.
Surface and examine the assumptions you are making
- How To Examine Your Assumptions
Name the assumptions filling the gap between the data you selected and the interpretation you reached.
- Question Your Assumptions
Name the assumptions filling the gap between the data you selected and the interpretation you reached.
- When Elaborative Interrogation Interrogate Your Own Beliefs
Apply the same "why do I believe this?" scrutiny to your existing beliefs, not just new facts.
Turn the "why" on your own assumptions
- When First Principles Thinking Socratic Questioning
Interrogate every claim with “how do I know this is true?” until only bedrock remains.
Use Socratic questioning to test each belief
- When Svadhyaya Self Study Assumption Audit
Surface and question the beliefs that are driving a current decision or conflict.
The assumption audit
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