Coaching practices for I'm About to Reason Through Something Where Honestly I Already Badly Want One Particular Answer to Be True and I Can Feel That Wish Sitting There Ready to Tilt the Whole Thing Before I've Even Looked at the Facts
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- I’m about to reason through something where, honestly, I already badly want one particular answer to be true
- If I’m honest, I knew where I was going to land before I’d looked at anything
- Once I’ve made up my mind, I notice I only ever see the evidence that proves me right and the rest just slides past me
- I’ve already decided what’s going on and I’m about to act on it
- A flimsy study that confirms what I want I’ll wave straight through, but a solid one that contradicts me I’ll pick apart for hours
Practices that may help
- Distinguish directional from accuracy goals before you start
Before reasoning about something, ask whether you are trying to reach a specific answer or the correct one.
Motivated Reasoning - Catch yourself working backward from a conclusion
Notice when the conclusion appeared before the evidence — and treat that as a red flag.
Motivated Reasoning - Consider the opposite
Actively argue the case against your first conclusion before accepting it.
Thinking, Fast and Slow, Made Usable - Test conclusions before acting on them
Treat your conclusion as a hypothesis and find one piece of evidence that would confirm or disconfirm it.
The Ladder of Inference - Apply the same evidence standard regardless of whether you like the conclusion
Grade the evidence before you know which conclusion it supports.
Motivated Reasoning - Evaluate evidence by its likelihood ratio, not by how it makes you feel
Ask how much more likely this evidence would be if you’re right versus if you’re wrong.
Bayesian Thinking: How to Update Beliefs Rationally - Ask "why this and not that?"
Explain why a fact is true rather than a plausible alternative.
Elaborative Interrogation: Ask "Why Is This True?" - Actively seek evidence that would prove you wrong
Ask what would change your mind — and then look for it.
The Scout Mindset - Set the constraint: what conclusions would you not accept?
Pre-define which conclusions would be embarrassing, then monitor whether your reasoning is steering away from them.
Motivated Reasoning - Surface and test underlying assumptions
Identify the implicit assumptions that your reasoning depends on and test whether they hold.
Socratic Questioning
Related concerns
- Consistent Reasoning Standards
Before reasoning about something, ask whether you are trying to reach a specific answer or the correct one.
Distinguish directional from accuracy goals before you start
- How To Reason More Carefully
Notice when the conclusion appeared before the evidence — and treat that as a red flag.
Catch yourself working backward from a conclusion
- Kunda Motivated Reasoning
Motivated reasoning, studied extensively by Ziva Kunda and others, is the tendency to reason toward a conclusion you want to reach rather than wherever the evidence leads. It is not conscious deception — the brain generates genuinely felt arguments for the preferred conclusion. Detection and structured debiasing techniques reduce but do not eliminate it; awareness alone is insufficient.
- Welcome Conclusions Scrutiny
Identify the implicit assumptions that your reasoning depends on and test whether they hold.
Surface and test underlying assumptions
- Ziva Kunda Reasoning
Motivated reasoning, studied extensively by Ziva Kunda and others, is the tendency to reason toward a conclusion you want to reach rather than wherever the evidence leads. It is not conscious deception — the brain generates genuinely felt arguments for the preferred conclusion. Detection and structured debiasing techniques reduce but do not eliminate it; awareness alone is insufficient.
- How To Check Your Reasoning
Notice when the conclusion appeared before the evidence — and treat that as a red flag.
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