Coaching practices for I've Got Two or Three Things I'm Genuinely Into and I Keep Feeling Like Having More Than One Means I'm Scattered and Unfocused Like I'm Supposed to Kill Off the Others and Pick the One Even Though None of Them Has Clearly Risen Above the Rest Yet
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- I’ve got two or three things I’m genuinely into, and I keep feeling like having more than one means I’m scattered and unfocused
- I've got five big things going at once and I bounce anxiously between all of them, so none of them ever really gathers momentum
- I’m spreading myself so thin across everything that nothing gets real traction
- I feel like I should already know my one thing and lock in, but honestly I’ve barely tried anything
- I start the day with a list of five "priorities" and end it having scattered myself across all of them and finished none
Practices that may help
- Allow multiple active interests without forcing a hierarchy
Having more than one developing interest is not a sign of lost focus — it’s how passion develops for many people.
Passion vs Interest: How to Actually Find Work You Love - Keep only one major open loop at a time
Limit yourself to one large incomplete project so the pull is focused, not scattered.
The Zeigarnik Effect: Using Task Tension to Stay Motivated - Run two burners at high for a defined sprint
Pick two domains to maximize for a bounded period, and accept the other two will idle.
Four Burners Theory: Making Peace With Trade-Offs - Sample widely before committing to a niche
Premature specialization forecloses interests you haven’t discovered yet.
Passion vs Interest: How to Actually Find Work You Love - Identify the single most important output for today
Choose one task that, if completed, would make the day a success regardless of everything else.
Essentialism: The Art of Eliminating the Non-Essential - Surface goal conflicts before they undermine each other
Goals that compete for the same time or emotional bandwidth will suppress each other — make the conflict explicit.
Goal Systems Theory: How Goals Work Together (and Against Each Other) - Follow genuine interest, not strategic interest
Pursue the thing that genuinely excites you — even if you cannot explain why or see how it fits.
The Creative Act: Rick Rubin’s Approach to Making - Design multifinal means — activities that serve several goals at once
Activities that advance multiple goals feel more energising and are more likely to be started.
Goal Systems Theory: How Goals Work Together (and Against Each Other) - Kill your darlings deliberately
Identify the idea you’re most attached to, then set it aside first.
Quantity Over Quality: How More Drafts Produce Better Work - Go for quantity first
Aim for a high number of ideas; the best ones tend to come later in the list.
Divergent Thinking: Generating Many Ideas
Related concerns
- How Do I Coordinate The Process Of Pursuing Multiple Job Opportunities At The Same Time
Replace passive job board browsing with active research into specific organisations you want to understand.
Build and work a target list of roles and organisations
- Multiple Interests Career
Having more than one developing interest is not a sign of lost focus — it’s how passion develops for many people.
Allow multiple active interests without forcing a hierarchy
- When Goal Systems Theory Multifinality Design
Activities that advance multiple goals feel more energising and are more likely to be started.
Design multifinal means — activities that serve several goals at once
- When Grit Develop Interest Deliberately
Deepen passion through engagement over time rather than expecting instant fit.
Develop interest, don’t just wait to find it
- When Passion Vs Interest Broaden Before Narrowing
Premature specialization forecloses interests you haven’t discovered yet.
Sample widely before committing to a niche
- 1 Over N Diversification
When you cannot estimate the value of each option reliably, spread resources equally.
Use the 1/N rule for diversification under deep uncertainty
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