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• My to-do list has swollen into a dumping ground for every someday-maybe idea I’ve ever had, so it’s less a plan than a wall of guilt
• My someday list has quietly become a dumping ground for stuff I’m just avoiding doing this week
• My to-do list has everything I could ever conceivably do crammed onto it, so there’s no honest line between someday-maybe and what I’m actually committing to today
• I’ve got this growing pile of someday ideas I parked and never look at again, and every time I glance at it I feel a flash of guilt
• I started a list of someday ideas months ago and now I dread opening it

Practices that may help

1. Only put tasks on the board that you’ve explicitly decided to do
   Your Kanban board is not a wish list — only tasks you have consciously committed to belong in To Do.
   Personal Kanban, Made Practical
2. Protect the someday list from contamination by current work
   The someday list loses its value if it fills up with current tasks that belong in your active project system.
   The Someday List
3. Separate "will-do" from "to-do" lists
   Keep a master to-do list distinct from the closed daily "will-do" list that you actually commit to.
   Do It Tomorrow, Made Practical
4. Review the someday/maybe list to decide what activates
   Look at your someday/maybe list and decide if anything is ready to become an active project.
   The GTD Weekly Review
5. Review the someday list weekly — even briefly
   An unreviewed someday list is a guilt pile; a reviewed one is a planning resource.
   The Someday List
6. Systematically process the backlog
   Work through old, unfinished tasks in order rather than perpetually re-triaging them.
   Do It Tomorrow, Made Practical
7. Give someday items a time horizon to distinguish near and far
   Not all someday items are equal — some are waiting for next month, others for retirement.
   The Someday List
8. Distinguish genuine deferral from disguised refusal
   An item that has been on the someday list for two or more years is not deferred — it has been declined without being acknowledged.
   The Someday List
9. Write all 25 goals without editing
   Brain-dump every goal, aspiration, and project you’re holding — professional and personal — uncensored.
   Warren Buffett’s Two-List Strategy
10. Work from a closed daily list
    Write today’s task list before the day begins, then refuse to add new items to it.
    Do It Tomorrow, Made Practical

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