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  • The instant my mind has nothing to hold onto it floods with instructions and second-guessing
  • In the middle of performing my mind is so crowded
  • While I’m actually performing there’s this running commentary telling me I’m blowing it, and I take every word of it as fact in the moment
  • When it matters most my mind scatters everywhere at once
  • The moment I’m up there performing, my head fills with "how do I look, am I blowing this, what are they thinking"

Practices that may help

  1. Give Self 2 a concrete focus anchor
    Occupy Self 1 with a specific sensory observation task so it stops issuing unhelpful instructions.
    The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1
  2. Use a process goal as an in-performance attention anchor
    Convert your most important process goal into a single attention cue that runs during the performance.
    Process vs. Outcome Goals in Sport and Performance
  3. Identify your Self 1 interference in real time
    Notice when your inner critic is instructing, judging, or catastrophizing — and name it as Self 1.
    The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1
  4. Direct focus to controllables only, especially under pressure
    When pressure is highest, narrow attention to what you can directly influence — and let everything else go.
    The Clutch State: Performing Under Pressure
  5. Shift to task-focused attention under performance anxiety
    Redirect attention from self-monitoring and outcome worry to the specific process cues of the task at hand.
    Attentional Deployment, Made Practical
  6. Use a brief distraction task immediately before execution
    Give working memory something else to do so it can’t hijack your automated skill.
    Choking Under Pressure, Made Practical
  7. Use thought-stopping to interrupt negative self-talk spirals
    Install a deliberate interruption cue that breaks self-critical rumination before it compounds.
    Self-Talk Strategies, Made Practical
  8. Install a focus cue as the final routine step
    End every pre-performance routine with one specific cue that triggers full attentional commitment to the task.
    Pre-Performance Routines, Made Practical
  9. Practice letting go of outcomes
    Release attachment to results during performance so attention can stay with the process.
    The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1
  10. Gather: narrow attention to the breath
    After acknowledging the moment, collect your attention onto the physical sensations of breathing.
    The Three-Minute Breathing Space

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