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  • I pour the same agonizing effort into picking a toothpaste as into a real life decision, and by the time something that matters comes along my capacity to decide well is already spent on trivia.
  • I agonize for days over tiny choices I could undo in a second, then rush the big ones I can’t take back
  • I agonize over which coffee to order with the same intensity I bring to the decisions that genuinely matter, and I can’t tell which ones deserve that effort
  • By the time the day’s real choices show up I’m already worn out from a hundred tiny ones
  • I burn so much energy every day deciding small stuff

Practices that may help

  1. Choose maximize or satisfice per decision
    Reserve maximizing for the few high-stakes, lasting choices; satisfice the rest.
    Satisficing vs. Maximizing: When “Good Enough” Wins
  2. Classify decisions by reversibility and stakes
    Sort decisions into low-stakes/high-stakes and reversible/irreversible before deciding.
    Decision Journaling: Learning to Decide Better Over Time
  3. Recognize which decisions to defer or delegate
    Not every choice deserves your cognitive best — identify which ones merit serious deliberation.
    Choice Overload, Made Practical
  4. Reduce daily decisions to protect self-control
    Automate recurring choices so effortful self-control is reserved for decisions that actually matter.
    Self-Regulation Failure and Ego Depletion
  5. Reduce the number of options to increase follow-through
    More choices often means worse decisions and less action — limit options deliberately.
    Choice Architecture, Made Practical
  6. Pre-commit to a hard option limit
    Decide in advance how many options you will consider — then stick to that number.
    Choice Overload, Made Practical
  7. Limit the option set deliberately
    Cap how many alternatives you’ll consider before you start.
    Satisficing vs. Maximizing: When “Good Enough” Wins
  8. Design responses in proportion to actual scale before the emotion sets them
    Before deciding how much time, money, or effort to assign, anchor the amount to the scale of the problem.
    Scope Insensitivity: Why Scale Doesn’t Change Your Feelings
  9. Adopt satisficing instead of maximizing
    Set a "good enough" threshold before you search, then stop when you hit it.
    Choice Overload, Made Practical
  10. Edit your choice environment upstream
    Remove options before the decision moment so the problem never arises.
    Choice Overload, Made Practical

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