Coaching practices for Everything I Come Up with Sits in This Safe Middle Average Size Average Speed Average Everything and I'm Wondering What Would Happen If I Cranked One Dial All the Way to an Extreme Instead
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- Everything I come up with sits in this safe middle
- Everything that goes even slightly wrong hits me at the same maxed-out intensity
- My inner critic shoots down every idea the second it forms, so nothing ever gets out
- I keep telling myself I should push harder, but I genuinely can’t tell anymore what’s a healthy stretch versus what would tip me over
- One thing goes wrong and my mind sprints straight to total disaster
Practices that may help
- Modify and Magnify
Ask: what happens if you make an element bigger, smaller, faster, slower, stronger, or weaker?
SCAMPER: A Systematic Creativity Technique - Scale the catastrophe on an actual severity scale
Rate the feared outcome on a 0–10 severity scale, then compare it to things you know are 10/10.
Decatastrophizing, Made Practical - Work at a dramatically different speed
Do the stuck task ten times faster or ten times slower — the speed change changes the output.
Oblique Strategies, Made Practical - Map your personal zone boundaries
Name what is currently easy, what is doable-but-challenging, and what would shut you down.
The Comfort Zone Model: How to Grow Without Burning Out - Decatastrophize with the worst/best/likely frame
Counter "everything is ruined" by naming the worst case, the best case, and the most likely case.
Explanatory Style: Optimism, Pessimism, and Learned Optimism - Catastrophizing (magnification and jumping to conclusions)
Assume the worst possible outcome is likely and that you couldn’t cope if it happened.
Cognitive Distortions: The Thinking Errors Behind Anxiety and Depression - Audit and reduce your stimulation diet
Deliberately lower the baseline level of stimulation you consume so boredom tolerance rebuilds.
Boredom Tolerance - Resist the pull to optimize parameters when structure is the problem
Notice when you are adjusting numbers and ask whether the structure is the actual problem.
Leverage Points - Strengthen corrective loops and weaken runaway ones
Find the balancing loop that should be correcting the problem — and ask why it is too weak.
Leverage Points - Welcome wild and outrageous ideas
Explicitly invite the absurd — it’s easier to tame a wild idea than to enliven a dull one.
Osborn’s Brainstorming Rules, Made Practical
Related concerns
- Compound Causes Extreme Outcomes
When several biases or forces combine on a single outcome, expect an extreme result.
Watch for lollapalooza effects — multiple models pointing the same direction
- Catastrophizing Social Situations
Assume the worst possible outcome is likely and that you couldn’t cope if it happened.
Catastrophizing (magnification and jumping to conclusions)
- Decatastrophizing At Work
Assume the worst possible outcome is likely and that you couldn’t cope if it happened.
- Decatastrophizing Under Stress
Assume the worst possible outcome is likely and that you couldn’t cope if it happened.
- Decatastrophizing When Overwhelmed
When failure feels catastrophic, locate it on a genuine scale of harm rather than treating it as the worst possible thing.
Anti-awfulizing: scale the badness honestly
- Decatastrophizing With Friends
Decatastrophizing is a cognitive technique from Aaron Beck's CBT that interrupts the anxiety thinking pattern of treating unlikely worst-case scenarios as near-certain and unbearable. By systematically examining probability and coping capacity, it reduces the feared situation's emotional magnitude. It is one of the best-evidenced cognitive interventions for anxiety, depression, and worry, with strong support from CBT trial literature.
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