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- My list of dreams is just one long undated jumble, and because nothing on it has a "when," it all feels equally far off and equally deferrable
- There’s a thing I’ve told myself I’ll do "someday" for years now
- My list throws "try that recipe this month" in with "write a memoir before I die" as if they’re the same size
- My someday list has quietly become a dumping ground for stuff I’m just avoiding doing this week
- I have this huge dream I care about deeply, but it just hovers out there as a wish
Practices that may help
- Categorize list items by time horizon
Sort items into near (this year), medium (this decade), and distant — then schedule the near-term ones immediately.
The Bucket List Method - Distinguish genuine deferral from disguised refusal
An item that has been on the someday list for two or more years is not deferred — it has been declined without being acknowledged.
The Someday List - Give someday items a time horizon to distinguish near and far
Not all someday items are equal — some are waiting for next month, others for retirement.
The Someday List - Protect the someday list from contamination by current work
The someday list loses its value if it fills up with current tasks that belong in your active project system.
The Someday List - Set a big goal, then work backward
Aim high long-term, then derive the ONE thing for the year, month, and today.
The ONE Thing, Made Practical - Calendar time blocking
Give every task a specific start and end time on your calendar.
Time Blocking, Made Practical - Fund and schedule one item now
Put money and a date on one item before the session ends — nothing else converts intention to action as reliably.
The Bucket List Method - Separate "will-do" from "to-do" lists
Keep a master to-do list distinct from the closed daily "will-do" list that you actually commit to.
Do It Tomorrow, Made Practical - Identify your unstarted Quadrant 2 projects
Name the important-but-not-urgent things you keep meaning to start — they represent your real priorities.
The Eisenhower Life Audit - Review the someday list weekly — even briefly
An unreviewed someday list is a guilt pile; a reviewed one is a planning resource.
The Someday List
Related concerns
- When Smart Goals Make It Time Bound
Attach a date so the goal competes for attention against everything urgent.
Time-bound — give it a deadline
- When The Bucket List Method Fund And Schedule One Item
Put money and a date on one item before the session ends — nothing else converts intention to action as reliably.
Fund and schedule one item now
- When The Someday List Protect The Someday List From Current Projects
The someday list loses its value if it fills up with current tasks that belong in your active project system.
Protect the someday list from contamination by current work
- Activate Someday Goals
An item that has been on the someday list for two or more years is not deferred — it has been declined without being acknowledged.
Distinguish genuine deferral from disguised refusal
- How To Use A Someday List
A someday list (popularized in David Allen’s Getting Things Done framework and common in life-design practice) is a trusted place to park valuable ideas, projects, and desires that are not actionable now without losing them or letting them occupy mental RAM. Its value depends entirely on the reviews being regular enough that you trust the list, and honest enough that it stays current. There is limited formal research on this specific tool, but the underlying capture-and-clarify mechanism is consistent with cognitive offloading research.
- Separate Active From Someday
The someday list loses its value if it fills up with current tasks that belong in your active project system.
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