Coaching practices for I Carry Tension in My Body That I've Stopped Even Feeling Clenched Jaw Tight Shoulders All Day and Just Telling Myself to Relax Does Nothing Because I Can't Locate or Let Go of a Tightness I No Longer Notice is There

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• I carry tension in my body that I’ve stopped even feeling
• I only ever notice how clenched I’ve been at the end of the day when my shoulders ache and my jaw is sore
• I carry tension in my body all the time
• People keep telling me to "just relax" and I genuinely don’t know how
• When I try to "just relax" my body it does nothing

Practices that may help

1. Progressive muscle relaxation — using tension to find release
   Systematically tense each muscle group for 5–10 seconds, then release, to identify and dissolve chronic tension your nervous system has stopped noticing.
   The Relaxation Body-Mind, Made Practical
2. Build tension-awareness check-ins
   Use what PMR taught you to catch and drop tension during the day, not just during practice.
   Progressive Muscle Relaxation, Made Practical
3. The heaviness exercise ("My arm is heavy")
   Repeat "my right arm is heavy" slowly and passively until you feel a real physical sensation of heaviness.
   Autogenic Training, Made Practical
4. Progressive muscle relaxation: the foundation
   Systematically tense and release each muscle group to build awareness of what relaxation physically feels like.
   Applied Relaxation, Made Practical
5. The core tense-and-release cycle
   Tense one muscle group for several seconds, then release fully and notice the contrast.
   Progressive Muscle Relaxation, Made Practical
6. The body scan
   Move attention slowly through the body, region by region, noticing sensation without trying to change it.
   Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR)
7. Differential relaxation: stay functional while reducing unnecessary tension
   Relax the muscles that aren't involved in what you're doing while keeping the ones that are active.
   Applied Relaxation, Made Practical
8. Relax and release stuck energy
   When emotion grips, consciously relax and let the energy move through instead of clamping down.
   The Untethered Soul, In Practice
9. Differential relaxation (rest unused muscles while working)
   Learn to keep uninvolved muscles relaxed while performing a task — eliminating the unnecessary tension that drains energy and builds stress.
   Edmund Jacobson’s Progressive Relaxation, Made Practical
10. The release-only shortcut
    Once trained, skip the tensing and go straight to releasing tension on cue.
    Progressive Muscle Relaxation, Made Practical

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