Coaching practices for We Decide Things by Group Vote and the Loud Idea Lovers Always Carry the Room While the One Person Whose Gut is Usually Right About What Won't Work Gets Drowned Out and Then Weeks Later it Turns Out They Saw the Problem Coming All Along
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- We decide things by group vote and the loud idea-lovers always carry the room, while the one person whose gut is usually right about what won’t work gets drowned out
- Every time we get the team in a room to brainstorm, the loudest two people steer it and everyone else goes quiet
- Our brainstorms always get hijacked by the same two loud, senior voices while the quieter people
- Whenever my team decides anything, the loudest or most senior person’s view just takes over the room and everyone quietly falls in line
- I’m walking into a meeting to win the room over to something, and I dread the silence after I pitch
Practices that may help
- Route decisions to your Discernment genius
Evaluation decisions drain Wonder and Tenacity geniuses — protect your evaluators and route decisions to them.
The 6 Types of Working Genius (Patrick Lencioni) - Brainwrite instead of group brainstorm
Have people generate ideas silently and individually first, then pool and build.
Divergent Thinking: Generating Many Ideas - Use round-robin turns to equalize contribution
Give everyone a timed, equal turn — it prevents a few voices from dominating and pulls quieter members into the space.
Osborn’s Brainstorming Rules, Made Practical - Use structured team forecasting to aggregate diverse views
Combine independent estimates from multiple people before the group talks — aggregation beats any single expert.
Superforecasting - Harness visible commitment in group settings
When one person in a group makes a visible commitment, others follow — start with the most willing.
Social Proof, Made Practical - Write reasons independently before discussing
Everyone records failure causes alone first, so the room doesn’t converge too soon.
The Pre-Mortem: Imagine It Already Failed - Match discussion time explicitly to the weight of the decision
Before any group discussion, set a time budget proportional to the decision’s actual importance — not its accessibility.
Parkinson’s Law of Triviality: Stop Bikeshedding - Disagree and commit on two-way doors
Voice your disagreement fully, then commit to the group decision and give it a genuine try.
The Two-Way Door - Harvest and cluster ideas after the session
The generation phase is worthless without a systematic harvest: sort, name, and prioritize the output.
Osborn’s Brainstorming Rules, Made Practical - Make decisions through debate, not declaration
Multipliers use real debate to engage the team’s best thinking before deciding; Diminishers use meetings to announce.
Multipliers: How Leaders Amplify the Intelligence Around Them
Related concerns
- When Multipliers Debate Maker
Multipliers use real debate to engage the team’s best thinking before deciding; Diminishers use meetings to announce.
Make decisions through debate, not declaration
- When Superforecasting Use Team Forecasting For Diverse Perspectives
Combine independent estimates from multiple people before the group talks — aggregation beats any single expert.
Use structured team forecasting to aggregate diverse views
- Group Decision Making
Combine independent estimates from multiple people before the group talks — aggregation beats any single expert.
- How To Speed Up Group Decisions
When presenting a low-stakes decision to a group, come with a recommendation rather than an open question.
Preload trivial decisions with a recommended option
- Similarity And Groupthink
Seeking people who agree with everything you believe produces an echo chamber, not a support network.
Use similarity to connect, not to seek validation
- When Divergent Thinking Brainwriting Not Brainstorming
Have people generate ideas silently and individually first, then pool and build.
Brainwrite instead of group brainstorm
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