Coaching practices for Similarity and Groupthink

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• Everyone in my circle thinks exactly like I do, and lately it feels less like support and more like a closed loop
• Whenever my team decides anything, the loudest or most senior person’s view just takes over the room and everyone quietly falls in line
• Our brainstorms always get hijacked by the same two loud, senior voices while the quieter people
• I catch myself deciding who a person is from the group they belong to before they’ve done anything, and when they don’t fit I wave it off as them being the exception rather than questioning my read.
• When I genuinely don’t know the right move, I find myself just doing whatever people like me seem to be doing

Practices that may help

1. Use similarity to connect, not to seek validation
   Seeking people who agree with everything you believe produces an echo chamber, not a support network.
   The Similarity-Attraction Effect (Donn Byrne)
2. Use structured team forecasting to aggregate diverse views
   Combine independent estimates from multiple people before the group talks — aggregation beats any single expert.
   Superforecasting
3. Use round-robin turns to equalize contribution
   Give everyone a timed, equal turn — it prevents a few voices from dominating and pulls quieter members into the space.
   Osborn’s Brainstorming Rules, Made Practical
4. Audit person-judgments for prototype substitution
   Check whether a judgment about a person is based on their actual behavior or on resemblance to a type.
   The Representativeness Heuristic — Judging by Resemblance
5. Social proof
   People look to what similar others are doing to decide what’s correct, especially under uncertainty.
   Cialdini’s Principles of Influence
6. Brainwrite instead of group brainstorm
   Have people generate ideas silently and individually first, then pool and build.
   Divergent Thinking: Generating Many Ideas
7. Harness visible commitment in group settings
   When one person in a group makes a visible commitment, others follow — start with the most willing.
   Social Proof, Made Practical
8. Manage the gap between perceived and actual similarity
   We often like people because we think they're like us — and later discover the gap. Plan for the update.
   The Similarity-Attraction Effect (Donn Byrne)
9. Appoint an explicit devil’s advocate role
   Give one person the formal job of arguing against the plan — making dissent structural, not personal.
   Red Teaming: Stress-Testing Plans Before They Fail
10. Disagree and commit on two-way doors
    Voice your disagreement fully, then commit to the group decision and give it a genuine try.
    The Two-Way Door

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